I learned of the S&W .410 revolver, the Governor, 6/13/11 - upon my first visit to a new lgs. I had tried a Judge at the range where I worked - never that fond of Taurus - and the Judge didn't help that. But - I left that new lgs with a $579 Governor. The reason was simple - it took moonclipped .45 ACPs, a la my 625JM, and was over $300 cheaper than the next more expensive .45 ACP revolver, the 325 Night Guard, while only 7/8" longer OAL and <1.5 oz heavier. It was a no-brainer for me - I wanted a .45 ACP night stand revolver. Sure, I bought four boxes of .410s that first week - still have half of them left over a year later. The .45 Colt use is fine - 250gr Speer Gold Dots are fine from it, as are .45 Schofield loads - and .45 GAPs should be fine (.45 Auto Rims
won't work!). Pretty universal... better than a Judge... but just plain
wrong for a smaller young lady!
My wife is 5'10" - she came with a pocket semi-auto - a .25 ACP Tomcat - gave that back to her dad. She picked out a 9mm CZ-75, after renting everything at the range. I bought her one and she loved it - was quite an eagle eye with it, too. Thousands upon thousands of Blazer 9mm later - she tired of it - she only carried it in her car on odd occasions - never holstered on her hip. She sold it and 'acquired' my bought new 'first' .38 - a 2" 10. I fitted some Hogue wood grips to her hand - nirvanna - her house & car gun. I tried to interest her in a 642 for pocket/IWB carry - no way - she tried the handfit of a bunch of .32 auto's - settled on a Seecamp (... of course!). "I can carry it and it doesn't make my butt look big!". She knows the jam drill, although it never has jammed. She actually prefers her 2" 10 to everything else, including her new PPK/S LE from 1/10. BTW, I hate self feeders. It was tough spending good money on rude-case-tossers - but I had to 'get her what
she wanted.
The key is 'What will she be comfortable with?'. A .38 can carry +P 158gr LHPSWCs - or, for the recoil-shy, 148gr LWC target loads - and still be effective. But, if she doesn't like firearms - or wants a 'deterrent' - please get her pepper spray... and the defensive course.
I am so relieved she wasn't physically injured in the altercation. I am sure it will be on her mind for some time. Sounds to me like you could use a vacation... The MS coast is nice... and not that far from any part of AL...
Stainz
PS For relative size perspective, my six shooter S&W Governor, sporting S&W/Hogue .500 Magnum monogrips, and my 642 pocket protector: