"The Longest Day" Part 2: My wife picks a gun

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Yesterday was my personal “Longest Day†at the range. In the morning I shot a CMP clinic (see General Discussion) and in the afternoon my wife and I meet for lunch in town and then headed back to try out some guns.

We’ve been trying to find her a defensive gun for quite awhile. The problem we’ve had is that she has very little hand strength and it’s been hard finding a gun that works for her. She has great difficulty working the slide and most automatics, and finds the trigger pull on double action revolvers to be to heavy for her.

Recently, we’ve found a couple of good possibilities in the HK P7M8 and the Sig 239. We picked these after she was able to try them at the range by borrowing them from other shooters. We thought these two were worth a second look because she was able to successfully load, work the action and handle the controls of both pistols. She also liked shooting them and how they each felt in her hand and especially liked the accuracy of the P7M8.

We managed to pretty much stumble on good deals on both pistols, so we wound up buying one of each before we knew which one she'd choose. The pistols have been waiting all winter and we finally got to the range yesterday to try them out.

In the end, it wasn't much of a contest. We knew it was a shoot out between the P7 and the Sig, but the contest was pretty much over before it even started. She struggled and struggled with the P7 and finally gave up on it. The squeeze cocker just requires too much hand strength from her. She can get the gun cocked, but just barely and not consistently, and it uncocks in her hand after every shot. This is the second P7 we've owned, and she had the same problem with both. (We bought the first one before we had the Sig and traded it up for a nicer P7 later, partially just to see if the problem was just with that firstspecific gun. Nope).

We don’t know for sure why she was able to shoot a borrowed P7M8 at the range but has had so many problems since then, but we finally decided it doesn’t really matter. It’s just not the gun for her. The only thing I can think of is that our pistols were both IE codes (1985 production), and the one she borrowed was newer and possibly something has changed in the newer guns that made them easier for her to shot. In any event, she’s lost confidence in the P7, so trying a newer one would be moot.

She’s happy with the Sig. She handles it just fine and even though she has to get used to the DA/SA pull, it should work better for her then the P7M8. She did have one failure to fire where the mag hadn't been firmly seated and the first round never got chambered. I later did the same thing so we both learned to FIRMLY slam the mag home. I think the aftermarket Houge grips extend too far down and had something to do with the problem. If it happens again, I'll trim the grips.

We had a couple surprises as well. She borrowed another shooter's pristine 1950's vintage S&W Model 10 .38 and found that she really liked it. She usually has problems with the double action pull on revolvers, but she pulled through the Smith's trigger with no problems. The gun fit her hands well and she thought the balance was "perfect." Her first single-action shot went right into the "C-in-C" target at 25 yards, from a two handed standing position. She wasn't quite as accurate shooting double action, but she didn't have any problems with the pull at all. The owner wouldn’t sell us the gun, so now I have to find her one just like it.

She then impressed the heck out of the other shooters by borrowing my S&W 28-2 (which she’d never fired before) and putting four of her first six shots into a "C-in-C" target at 25 yards. She had to fire single-action because the gun was to big for her and she couldn't get the right leverage for the DA pull, but she was still shooting from the standing position at 25 yards, and
I was also suitably impressed.

When the other shooters left, we were able to move up to about 10 yards and that’s when we wrung out the P7 and the Sig, and a couple others as well.

She also tried my EG Makarov, and while she handled it OK, she was indifferent to it and didn't like the recoil.

Right when she was getting tired and was ready to stop, I had her try my custom CZ 75, pretty much on a lark. I wasn't sure if she'd like it or if it would be "too big for her," but I figured it was worth a shot. She was able to work the controls and rack the action with no problems and, when she got into her stance, she started spitting the bullets out into a nice group on the paper plate target. I'd only loaded 10 rounds, because I knew she was getting tired and wanted to quit, but when I saw the smile on her face, I quickly loaded two more 15 round mags.

I moved her back from the seven yard line where she’d fired the first mag, to about yards for the second mag and then 15 yards for the third mag. She kept all the rounds on the paper plates and, while her groups spread out a little as she backed up, she kept all the shots pretty nicely centered in the plates.

I’d thought the gun would be too heavy for her, but she liked how the weight helped absorb the recoil. She actually shot the CZ the best and I think enjoyed it the most. Unfortunately, I think it’s a little large and heavy for her for CCW use, but we’re going to have her try it at some IDPA practice nights soon. I told her I'd share my CZ with her, but she couldn't take it over completely like she did with my Ruger .22 because it's my favorite gun as well. Hmmmnnnnn... Maybe another CZ is in the future....

She's becoming quite a good shot and is much better than she was even a year ago and a far cry from the mildly anti-gunner she was when we first started dating.

I just thought I'd share our experiences. I was surprised by how things turned out and that's something I'll keep in mind as an instructor and when people ask me for advice on what gun to get. Sometimes, no matter what seems like it will work ahead of time, you just can't tell until you try it. And, sometimes, people will like guns that you just wouldn't think "fit" them, like my wife and the CZ.


Rob
 
Trebor,

I wonder if your wife might like one of the compact CZ's?

Just a thought....
Don.
 
Not talking about you, but in general I've always found it wierd that people tend to steer women towards little guns. Think about it folks...

Little guns have more recoil
Little autoloaders have the stiffest springs and the hardest actions to cycle by hand
Little revolvers usually have terrible ergonomics and long, heavy DA triggers
Short sight radius makes it harder to hit accurately with either of them

...Thus creating pretty much every possible handicap for a new woman shooter. :rolleyes:
 
Man, I hate to be a punk...

You guys have been at this for awhile now, it seems, and hand strength is reportedly a limiting factor. Why not train her grip?

There are tons of handy gizmos for it and only a moderate amount of work would be needed to bring her up to par.

The benefits are certainly farther reaching than handgun selection too...no need to miss the season finale of 'Who Wants To Marry A Convicted Serial Rapist For $10,000' just to open a jar of peanut butter.

:D

Now, if theres some limitation like bad arthritis or she only has three fingers, please forget I said anything. I realize theres always more to even the simplest of stories.

:)
 
I'm glad to hear that she found what works for her.
I also helped with a new shooter yesterday.
A friend of mine brought a neighbor to the range with him. The guy had very little knowledge with guns, but we soon changed that. After he plinked with the .22 that he had brought, we left him run some rounds through our guns.
He seemed to especially like my AK.:D
 
My wife is in the process of purchasing a carry gun, so we have been going through the same concerns. IMHO, this is not a simple process. While I agree with the previous posts on size and grip strength, I don’t believe that these concerns should be entirely ignored.

I can only speak to my wife’s preferences. She has small hands and does not like large autos. That doesn’t mean I would steer her towards a pocket .32 ACP, but I would definitely want her to find one that “fit†her hand. Additionally, while she enjoys shooting, she will not have the time to practice once or twice a week.

A gun that is not comfortable or too diffcult to rack will be unpleasant for novice and beginner shooters to use, therefore they will not want to practice as much. The required level of skill to use it in a stressful situation will not be developed.

I think the key is try a variety and find what works the best.
 
My wife has a medical condition which gives her trouble with her hands.

Things that work:

H&K USP 9mm full size
Colt Govt .380, Mustang & Mustang +II. The locked breech design lightens recoil.
Kel-Tec P32 another locked breech action.
Beretta 86 Tip-Up barrel .380. She doesn't have to work the slide, and it's a fairly large gun for a .380 so the recoil isn't too bad.

Things that don't work:
Most of my full size autos. The grips don't fit her and she can't work the slide.
Revolvers. The big ones are too heavy and large and the smaller ones recoil too much.
Most blowback autos.

Training her grip doesn't work. Unless your goal is to make her hands non-functional for a day or two.
 
My aunt has carried a S&W "Ladysmith" 9mm for years. I've checked it out and it seems to be very female friendly. My mom enjoys shooting it and about the only gun she'll shoot is my dad's .22 revolver! It has nice thin grips and is quite easy to manage and handle but has enough weight for good recoil absorption.

brad cook
 
:D Trebor

I'm glad you have two (SIG 239 & CZ) that your wife likes.
I have a 239 with a Houge hand all grips. I had to trim it to size.


Now for the smart aleck part of the post... I'll give you $100 for that "junk" HK P7M8 :p

I'm willing to go as high as $112.
 
What about a P99 with the smallest back-strap intalled? My wife doesn't mind shooting my P99 .40, and she has pretty small hands as well.

--Ben
 
Thanks for the thoughts and suggestions. I'll reply to some things in order:

DDC: I'm now considering a compact CZ 75 or PCR. I was thinking about getting one anyway, and now have another reason to buy one. The only thing that might not work for her is that the smaller pistols generally have stiffer recoil springs and she might have trouble with the slide. That and the pistol won't have much mass to soak up the recoil. (I didn't think she'd like the CZ cause it's all steel and kind of heavy. Turned out that's EXACTLY what she likes about it) If we buy one and she doesn't like it, that's fine, It'll be MINE.

Sean Smith: I agree with you about women and little guns. We started this search with the five shot J-frame Smiths and went from there. It took all of her hand strength to pull the DA trigger, and she got exhausted after dry firing only a few rounds. Never tried one on the range since she had so much trouble dry firing.

We also definately agree with you on the stiffer springs in the smaller pistols being a problem. The Kahr K9 and P9 were some of the first autos we looked at and the springs were just too stiff for her. Same with the compact Glocks up to the G19.

The whole reason we started with the little guns is that this is also going to be a CCW gun for her. She's concerned about the bulk and weight of carrying a gun, but we've discovered she really can't get any smaller then the Sig 239 or possibly the Makarov. (She handled the Mak just fine, but didn't care for it much. She liked the Sig much better)

Based on her experiences with the Mak, we're pretty much ruling out other small blowback .380s.

Sanchezero: I agree with you that I'd like her to improve her hand strength, but it's just not going to happen. She does have one of those red squeeze balls that she uses, especially when she's stressed, but she doesn't use it consistently enough for any meaningful long term improvement. In the meantime, we have to find something that will work for her NOW.

Part of what I have to do is to make sure that shooting is still fun for her. Struggling with a gun that doesn't work well for her because of her grip strength quickly sucks all the fun out and makes it a chore. If it's too much of a chore, she'll quit going shooting with me. Believe me, she's come a long way since the only thing she wanted to shoot was my Ruger Mk II .22.

goon: She does have a AK 74 (Sar 2) clone that she thinks is a "cute, girly gun." She likes shooting it better then the M-1 Carbine, but I gotta get that trigger slap fixed before we take it to the range next. It was getting painful last time we shot it.

SteveS: I see your reaching some of the same conclusions that we have. Especially that operating and shooting an uncomfortable gun kills the fun and makes it les likely the person will practice. Good luck with the search.

JohnKSA: We wanted to try some of the Colt .380 autos, but we couldn't get our hands on any around here. The tip up barrel Berretta was our gun of last resort, if it came to that. Now I think it won't. Has your wife tried a K-frame Smith, especially an older one? We found that was the perfect frame size for my wife.

Digme: We hadn't tried a Ladysmith auto yet cause we couldn't get one to borrow. We'll keep it in mind.


The good news is that she liked the CZ 75 so much she's pretty much agreed to go to our IDPA practice night and maybe try a match. She handled that gun like she was born with one.

She's shot in a IDPA style match with a Ruger .22, but never with a centerfire. She had a good time with the Ruger and I'd like to see how she'd do with the CZ.

I'm also encouraged because if the CZ continues to work out for her, she will now be able to take some upper level training classes. She's had the NRA Basic Pistol and Personal Protection in the Home classes, but she didn't really have a centfire pistol she could handle well enough to take anything like LFI 1 with Ayoob.

I've now also got to get her to try a friend's Series 70 Colt Commander in 9mm. Based on how she did with the CZ, maybe the single stack, Single action Colt will also work out.

We were both really surprised by how the selection process has gone and I've learned alot about finding the right gun for a person. I'm a new NRA Instructor and I'm definately going to use what we've learned with my students. I'm also going to diversify my training battery a bit and make sure new shooters get to try a broad range of guns. What I think will work for them may not be what actually does work in the end.

Rob
 
Not Bubba: The P7M8 is for sale. Add another "zero" to the end of your first offer, and your in the ballpark :)

We had some problems with the Houge grips as well. We each had one time where we didn't get the mag fully seated and a round didn't chamber. I think it's because of the grips and I'll probably trim them a little too.

Venom: We aren't planning on trying a P99 because we don't know anyone who has one and can't buy one of everything (unfortunately). We may try a Steyr M9, partially because I've heard interesting things about them, and partially because they are so cheap right now. I'm glad we passed on the Springfield XD for her though because when we did get to handle one, she couldn't work the slide.

We are DEFINATELY buying a nice, older S&W Model 10 though.
 
If you do get another CZ, see about getting the Cadet .22 conversion kit as well. Double her pleasure double your fun.

Sounds like any way you cut it, both she and thee are on the right track totally. I can't imagine my GF actually wanting to purchase her own... she tends to like my G26 waaaaaay too much.

Adios
 
Baba Louie: I have a Kadet .22 kit on my 75B. My wife has shot it, but doesn't like it because there is so little of the slide to grab on to to chamber a round.

I knew she didn't like my 75B, which is why I didn't think she'd like my customized Pre-B when she tried it, but we didn't remember that the reason she hated the B was because of the Kadet kit. Once she had a full slide to grab, she wa fine. For a .22, she sticks with my (now her) Ruger Mk. 2 Govt. Target Model.
 
Trebor: consider yourself lucky.....

My wife hates guns but was gracious enough to let me train her on my EAA Windicator .38 spcl. I was proud of her because she kept all her shots on the paper and in pretty close proximity. When we were done, I asked her "How did you like it??" I wasn't surprised when she answered "Not at all." Sigh...... My wife won't carry anything for self-defense and she commutes all the way to mid-town Atlanta daily. I asked her if she felt comfortable and competent enough to handle the .38 spcl in a home defense situation and she said "yes." That's about as far as I can take it. Give your wife a pat on the back and an "atta-girl." I'd be thrilled to the point of delirium if my wife would practice, carry, and simply enjoy shooting. Oh well.........................
 
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do you have any 1911 type pistols for her to try?


a steel framed 1911 with flat MSH, short trigger should fit her pretty well.


I have really small hands, and most pistols (including cz-75s) don't fit me at all.
 
Nope, I don't own any 1911's yet. She did try a .45 ACP 1911 with a dot scope at the range once, but didn't like it much. That was when she first started shooting though, so things may have changed since then.


A buddy of mine has a Series 70 Colt Commander (LW I think) in 9mm that I want her to try. Other than that, I'm sure I can scare up a 1911 for her to try at the range sometime.

Rob
 
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