Plan2Live
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After reading a few threads in this area, I notice a lot of advice about "The Look". As I see it and read it, it seems to have two separate meanings.
1. To stare down a potential attacker, letting them know that you know that they are there.
2. Looking like a victim. or the reverse, NOT looking like a victim.
I'm looking for advice and feedback not controversy. But.....
1. In staring down a potential attacker, how do you avoid escalation through the "what are you looking at response"?
2. How does one NOT look like a victim while not risking #1 above or postering yourself in the manner of a bantum rooster looking for a fight? I'm 50, a tad over weight, yes, just a tad not obese, but I am graying, I wear glasses, during the day I am dressed like a mid-level businessman and have never aspired to be any sort of "bad arse". I couldn't convinicingly pull off the Charles Bronson look for a million bucks. Maybe a ticked off elderly John Malcovich (Movie RED) but definately not Charles Bronson.
I have passed "The Interview" and almost became the victim a few times that I am aware of but always managed to evade at the last minute, or so I think. Once, I evaded thanks to my quick thinking and overly smart mouth which left the perp momentarily confused giving me about two seconds to sidestep and get some space between us.
So how does the group respond to those two questions?
1. To stare down a potential attacker, letting them know that you know that they are there.
2. Looking like a victim. or the reverse, NOT looking like a victim.
I'm looking for advice and feedback not controversy. But.....
1. In staring down a potential attacker, how do you avoid escalation through the "what are you looking at response"?
2. How does one NOT look like a victim while not risking #1 above or postering yourself in the manner of a bantum rooster looking for a fight? I'm 50, a tad over weight, yes, just a tad not obese, but I am graying, I wear glasses, during the day I am dressed like a mid-level businessman and have never aspired to be any sort of "bad arse". I couldn't convinicingly pull off the Charles Bronson look for a million bucks. Maybe a ticked off elderly John Malcovich (Movie RED) but definately not Charles Bronson.
I have passed "The Interview" and almost became the victim a few times that I am aware of but always managed to evade at the last minute, or so I think. Once, I evaded thanks to my quick thinking and overly smart mouth which left the perp momentarily confused giving me about two seconds to sidestep and get some space between us.
So how does the group respond to those two questions?