There are a lot of Democrats that are not politicians..........but you can't become so heavily associated with one party and expect people from the opposition party to just except you with open arms.
To some extent, I agree with you, and I have some sympathy for the rank & file Dem who has lost control of his party.
The problem is that to whatever extent the rank and file non politician Democrat is gun friendly, or even simply not hostile to us, it was NOT reflected in the agenda and actions of his party since the mid 60's, which was and still is, deliberately and actively working to destroy the armed citizenry.
The Democratic leadership has been actively hostile to all but the tamest of deer and duck hunters. Handguns (and their owners) were officially demonized in the 60's & 70's, they were forced into disarray during the Reagan era in the 80's, and by the time they came back in the 90's, they'd given up on handguns as a front burner issue and officially demonized EBRs (and their owners).
The official policy of the DNC has been hostility to gunowners, and it has been that way for DECADES, althought they occassional take their foot off the gas when they think it's going to cost them votes.
Don't think for a minute though that they'll go for it when nobody's looking.
Here's the 52 senator who voted in favor of the renewal of the AWB in March, 2004:
Akaka (D-HI)
Bayh (D-IN)
Biden (D-DE)
Bingaman (D-NM)
Boxer (D-CA)
Breaux (D-LA)
Byrd (D-WV)
Cantwell (D-WA)
Carper (D-DE)
Chafee (R-RI)
Clinton (D-NY)
Collins (R-ME)
Conrad (D-ND)
Corzine (D-NJ)
Daschle (D-SD)
Dayton (D-MN)
DeWine (R-OH)
Dodd (D-CT)
Dorgan (D-ND)
Durbin (D-IL)
Edwards (D-NC)
Feinstein (D-CA)
Fitzgerald (R-IL)
Graham (D-FL)
Gregg (R-NH)
Harkin (D-IA)
Hollings (D-SC)
Inouye (D-HI)
Jeffords (I-VT)
Kennedy (D-MA)
Kerry (D-MA)
Kohl (D-WI)
Lautenberg (D-NJ)
Leahy (D-VT)
Levin (D-MI)
Lieberman (D-CT)
Lincoln (D-AR)
Lugar (R-IN)
Mikulski (D-MD)
Murray (D-WA)
Nelson (D-FL)
Pryor (D-AR)
Reed (D-RI)
Rockefeller (D-WV)
Sarbanes (D-MD)
Schumer (D-NY)
Smith (R-OR)
Snowe (R-ME)
Stabenow (D-MI)
Voinovich (R-OH)
Warner (R-VA)
Wyden (D-OR)
9 Republicans, out of 51 voted to renew the AWB.
43 Democrats, out of 48, voted to renew.
A pattern like that is unmistakable. How can you expect the NRA to be anything other than hostile to them?
I'd done detailed analysis of their party platform starting in 2000. They show signs of ducking for political cover on RKBA, but even then, they leave themselves plenty of wiggle room:
http://geekwitha45.blogspot.com/2004_08_01_geekwitha45_archive.html#109392451704658177
My conclusion at the end of my most recent analysis was that the DNC 2004 platform was microscopically better on arms issues than in 2000, in that they'd gone into stealth mode and were trying to keep a low profile. I alsno noted and that if they kept getting slammed in the polls, they might be back to American baseline by 2012.
Now that they've NOT been slammed in the polls, I'm betting my traditional dollar that their 2006 platform will, at minimum, be incrementally worse than their 2004 platform, perhaps drawing even with their 2000 platform.