Yeah I think these are some good options that I wasn't really thinking of. I can at least handle the Kahr and the Sig at a LGS to get a feel for them. With a pinky extension, the Sig 938 would be "just right" size wise. As would the Kahr with a lighter trigger (6-8lbs maybe).
I probably would have purchased an STI LS9 by now except that for $900 I'd at least like to be able to see one first. I don't think I've ever seen one in person, either.
I'm not so much concerned that the internals be true to form, the things I like about the 1911 platform is the manual of arms, the SA trigger, the all metal construction and the grip angle. And that even the fattest single stack 1911 feels svelte compared to a double-stack polymer gun.
The Tokarev (and even the Colt 1903) are slim pieces that mostly meet that criteria, but I wouldn't consider them for CCW...
Thanks guys. Going to do some research on the K9 and 938 now.