The only thing I don't like about this gun for her is that, like other non-1911s, this gun's thumb safety isn't reliable like a 1911's thumb safety, which means that she should not carry it floating around in her purse cocked and locked. My wife has a big purse full of all of her stuff too but this purse has a zipper on the outside on the end to a compartment that the pistol sits in. The only better, dependable option is a micro 1911 that she could keep chambered with the thumb safety on. Any other Glock or Springfield SD-type gun without a real safety like the 1911 thumb safety is vulnerable to going off if it can be bumped by any sort of shaped items floating around the purse's other compartments. .