In my adjustable-sighted .357 GP100 sixguns, my preferred load is Federal Hi-Shok 125-grain JHP, or 125-grain Gold Dots. Lately, the Gold Dots are more likely to be in stock.
In my fixed-sight .357 sixguns, the 145-grain Winchester Silvertips shoot closer to point of aim, so is usually the favored load, especially in my Ruger Speed Six, which is more comfortable (recoil) with the STHPs than the "hotter" 125s.
Recoil is actually less a factor with my SP101s, which really lock well into my grip.