The ABC's...
is a "how to" and more importantly a "why (and why NOT) to" sort of book. It is decidedly NOT a reloading manual; you will need one of those as well. I'm a fan; don't see it as outdated; it is background information, and much more extensive than any reloading manual, as to background.
For a reloading manual I like the Lyman books, specifically because they do NOT have an axe to grind re: brands of bullets or powder. And the in-depth explanations in the Lyman manuals are pretty good, too.
However, just about any brand-specific reloading manual will have good data for that brand. Most reloaders acquire several manuals along the way, and when developing a new load, refer back-and-forth to all of them. No one manual will cover all the possible combinations of bullet, brass, and powder.
As to which ABC's to get, my usual recommendation is, "the latest available." The publisher, Krause Publishing, seems to get a different editor for each new edition. Whichever one you get, your money will not be wasted, IMHO.