I agree that trying a few out at a range is a good idea. It is worth a few $ in research to make sure you dont end up with a weapon you like the feel of, but cannot comfortably fire.
I am personally leaning heavily toward an XD .45 myself (4"), i have big hands, i'm a big guy, and it feels like an extension fo my arm. I dont have a lot of experience with handguns aside from some range time, but ive fired a fair number of different pistols and a few revolvers and while I have felt some in the store I liked I didnt care for them at all as much when firing them. Do some real homework at the range, spend a few rental $ and make sure youre getting what fits you best. Everybody here has made good recommendations and given good data on their preferences and experiences, take that information with you and see which one fits you best. XD9 SC is an excellent weapon and bloody accurate for a 3" barrel, its easily concealed, relatively inexpensive, and will fit small hands. My next bit of research will be right before I am ready to buy my primary weapon, and the only one I havent tried that I have interest in is a 1911, which I will try side by side with the XD before I make my final desicion.
Doing a little hands on research can save you a costly mistake.
I am personally leaning heavily toward an XD .45 myself (4"), i have big hands, i'm a big guy, and it feels like an extension fo my arm. I dont have a lot of experience with handguns aside from some range time, but ive fired a fair number of different pistols and a few revolvers and while I have felt some in the store I liked I didnt care for them at all as much when firing them. Do some real homework at the range, spend a few rental $ and make sure youre getting what fits you best. Everybody here has made good recommendations and given good data on their preferences and experiences, take that information with you and see which one fits you best. XD9 SC is an excellent weapon and bloody accurate for a 3" barrel, its easily concealed, relatively inexpensive, and will fit small hands. My next bit of research will be right before I am ready to buy my primary weapon, and the only one I havent tried that I have interest in is a 1911, which I will try side by side with the XD before I make my final desicion.
Doing a little hands on research can save you a costly mistake.