One can do a lot to avoid blow-ups when using ANY press by picking a powder charge that is fairly obvious to spot when something's "wrong". It is tough to do with revolver cases, but in 9mm and 45ACP, it is easy enough.
My pet .45 load uses Win231 - it takes about 15gr of this powder to fill the case to the brim, so I can easily spot a double of my intended charge weight.
My 9mm load uses around 7 grains of AA #7. 13 grains of this powder will overflow the case.
It ain't foolproof, but it helps.
Another thing I do is load in 50-round batches. If I screw up royally, my problem is isolated to a single batch.
As for which press? Well, I'm in the blue buffoon group (as Shoney so nicely put it). I also only live 25 miles from Dillon, and 5 of my co-workers also have Dillon presses (good support network). With that said, this thing is awesome, and it is dead easy to switch calibers.
I considered the LnL, but decided not to go against the flow - I'm happy I didn't. I'm sure the press works well, though - and I swear by Hornady products as well.