Dr. THW-
I have had the forcing cones lengthened on a 20 Gauge field O/U and I could tell the difference. Spreading out the impulse does matter.
However, the shot column doesn't move much, so I don't think that will have much effect, except at points where it is compressed. Still, if a slug had to be compressed at the forcing cone, I think it would blow up the gun, so I'm going to guess that the wad takes up that space, or a soft gas seal at the base of the slug does. Either a plastic wad or a soft gas seal is compressible, just like shot.