I don't hate the 3.5" shells, but nothing has ever made mad enough to shoot it with one. I've had 1 Remington 870 chambered for 3.5" shells and have tried the Benelli Nova. There is no need at all for anything that big for turkey hunting. No turkey is worth elephant gun recoil.
When steel shot became mandatory I could understand 3" steel shot to get a few more of the larger steel pellets in a shell for ducks. In my experience the 3.5" shells have a place if you hunt larger ducks or geese, and shoot a lot. The 3.5" steel loads don't recoil nearly as bad as the lead turkey loads.
For me I just use 2.75" or 3" steel loads and they work fine for the type of waterfowl hunting I do. A shot at a goose is just by luck and I use whatever is in my gun. If it is too long of a shot, I just don't shoot. If I were going on a dedicated goose hunt I'd pay a premium for the better non-toxic shot and stay with 3" shells. If you hunt geese and shoot a LOT, the premium loads are pricey and I could understand the desire to shoot the cheaper 3.5" steel.
When steel shot became mandatory I could understand 3" steel shot to get a few more of the larger steel pellets in a shell for ducks. In my experience the 3.5" shells have a place if you hunt larger ducks or geese, and shoot a lot. The 3.5" steel loads don't recoil nearly as bad as the lead turkey loads.
For me I just use 2.75" or 3" steel loads and they work fine for the type of waterfowl hunting I do. A shot at a goose is just by luck and I use whatever is in my gun. If it is too long of a shot, I just don't shoot. If I were going on a dedicated goose hunt I'd pay a premium for the better non-toxic shot and stay with 3" shells. If you hunt geese and shoot a LOT, the premium loads are pricey and I could understand the desire to shoot the cheaper 3.5" steel.