spacemanspiff
Senior Member
my brother dropped by to pick me up on his way to a hockey game, and he says:
brother: "okay, i dont mind if you have your gun around me, but i dont want a round chambered."
me: ".......what?"
brother: "around me or my kids, i dont want you to have your gun chambered."
me: "..............why?"
brother: "because i dont want it."
me: "and this makes you safer how?"
brother: "i dont want to get in a debate about it."
me: "i'm not debating you, i just would like a reason."
brother: "because. i dont want it."
me: "..................NO. i wont allow you, or anyone to tell me how i should carry."
brother: "alright then. i'll take you back to your home. no hard feelings."
me: "of course not. but its sad that your complete ignorance of firearms and how i handle them brings you to this decision."
now at first, i was upset, and wanted to tear him a new one. but i know that wont make any difference. hes a stubborn sob, and nothing i say or do will change his mind. i have an idea of where hes getting this misinformation from. hes divorcing his wife of ten years, and is talking about marrying this other woman hes fallen in love with. i think shes fed his mind with the idea that his kids and himself are endangered by my carrying cocked and locked.
but who knows? this may have been his position all along. hes not anti-gun but he has no interest in becoming proficient with his handgun, doesnt even want to spend time at the range or spend money on ammo. he wont take the concealed weapons course, thinking he never needs to carry on his person. he wont buy a shotgun for home defense.
i dont think his kids even know he has a gun, and they are already old enough and smart enough to shoot .22 if he would train them.
he keeps his ruger p90 in his vehicle and takes it in when he gets home, but it isnt chambered.
it is too bad that his decision will keep me from going to his place, or doing just about anything with him or his kids. but in a way, i'm relieved.
brother: "okay, i dont mind if you have your gun around me, but i dont want a round chambered."
me: ".......what?"
brother: "around me or my kids, i dont want you to have your gun chambered."
me: "..............why?"
brother: "because i dont want it."
me: "and this makes you safer how?"
brother: "i dont want to get in a debate about it."
me: "i'm not debating you, i just would like a reason."
brother: "because. i dont want it."
me: "..................NO. i wont allow you, or anyone to tell me how i should carry."
brother: "alright then. i'll take you back to your home. no hard feelings."
me: "of course not. but its sad that your complete ignorance of firearms and how i handle them brings you to this decision."
now at first, i was upset, and wanted to tear him a new one. but i know that wont make any difference. hes a stubborn sob, and nothing i say or do will change his mind. i have an idea of where hes getting this misinformation from. hes divorcing his wife of ten years, and is talking about marrying this other woman hes fallen in love with. i think shes fed his mind with the idea that his kids and himself are endangered by my carrying cocked and locked.
but who knows? this may have been his position all along. hes not anti-gun but he has no interest in becoming proficient with his handgun, doesnt even want to spend time at the range or spend money on ammo. he wont take the concealed weapons course, thinking he never needs to carry on his person. he wont buy a shotgun for home defense.
i dont think his kids even know he has a gun, and they are already old enough and smart enough to shoot .22 if he would train them.
he keeps his ruger p90 in his vehicle and takes it in when he gets home, but it isnt chambered.
it is too bad that his decision will keep me from going to his place, or doing just about anything with him or his kids. but in a way, i'm relieved.
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