I am looking at revolvers. I want something very nice and small. The Ruger LCR looks like it might be a good choice. What are some other options? I want one in .357mag. I know it will be a lot of recoil, but I want the power and this point is not negotiable. My real question is: is the Ruger LCR the best option? Are there any better options? I am going for concealability, light weight, accuracy, and good trigger.
Well, add hand-bruising recoil, massive muzzle blast and muzzle flash that will leave you night-blind. Toss in the lack of controllability for follow-up shots, which even with the .357 Magnum are a good idea. Then let's talk about that "not negotiable" idea.
There's a good reason just about every person who has replied to your query has recommended either a heavier revolver or a lighter load: the Scandium/Airweight Smith J-frames and the LCR are prime examples of gunmakers having the technology to produce a firearm but not the wisdom to consider whether it's a good idea.
There is a thread on THR called
What's your recoil limit? that might be worth checking out. There are all the expected hand howitzers like the .44 Magnum, .454 Casull, etc., but a surprising number of responses cite the J-frame Smith & Wesson Airweights and Ruger LCR. Even with +P loads, the featherweight wheelguns punish the hand. And the tiny grips aggravate the matter by not allowing the shooter to grip the gun with the entire hand. Apparently somebody at Smith & Wesson and somebody else at Ruger forgot, didn't know or didn't care that the little finger is crucial to grip strength and you need all the fingers you can get on the grip to control these little guns that already kick like a mule.
You might think we're all wusses and wienies but it ain't so. I have a S&W Airweight - a Model 637 chambered for .38 Special +P and a S&W Model 60 with a 3-inch barrel chambered for .357 Magnum. I have fired over a thousand rounds through each and realized there are better and more meaningful ways to demonstrate my manhood than pushing the envelope with hot loads in too-light handguns. I have also realized that .38 Special is really a pretty darn good round in a belly gun and that being able to squeeze off multiple shots in rapid sequence is more likely to stop an attack. I do practice with Magnum ammunition in the Model 60 and carry it loaded with +P, but the Airweight (which I carry more than any of my handguns) has five rounds of .38 Special Hornady Critical Defense on board and I carry a speedloader with five more rounds in my pocket. I also dumped the Uncle Mike's Boot Grips and replaced them with slightly larger grips that allow me to use all fingers to grip the gun. And, yes, I do practice with what I carry every time I go to the range.
So, is the LCR your best option? For a Magnum, no. The SP101 is the way to go, preferably with the longer barrel. If you want the LCR, you'll be better off with the .38 Special +P version loaded with some decent hollowpoints.