Well, for a whole bunch of years I have flared my bottle necked cases, when using PCed or cast bullets (and on a few occasions for flat based jacketed bullets.). I tell new reloaders to use as much flare as they need to get good, shootable ammo now, and worry about case life later. Any flare is easily removed after bullet seating with a crimp die (seating/crimp die adjusted for a minimal "crimp", just enough to straighten the flare). The only time there is "too much" flare is when the case mouth scrapes the ID of the seating die or won't enter the die. Brass is cheap and good shootable ammo is the goal and case life can be addressed later (besides, how much is case life reduced on a bottle necked case by flaring the mouth? 5 reloadings? 8 reloadings? And how much $$ do you think you'll actually save?)