Criteria #1, and #2.
I like the Marlin quite a bit and the 30-30 cartridge will be sufficient. It is capable at 150, maybe 200 yards, but it isn't flat shooting. Anything beyond 50 yards and you start having to account for some bullet drop. A 308 hits harder at 600 yards than a 30-30 at 100, with very similar recoil. But for what you want to do 30-30 is fine.
Criteria #3
As to noise, anything will be loud enough that you need ear protection. But as long as you stay away from magnum cartridges or really short barrels the noise isn't too objectionable. The 30-30 will be fine.
Criteria #4
Lever actions got a reputation for being light and fast handling years ago, but in reality are on the heavy side. My Marlin 30-30's weigh more than any of my bolt rifles. They weigh more unscoped than most of my bolt guns weigh with scopes on them. When you compare one without a scope to a scoped bolt rifles they aren't bad. Add a scope and they are pretty heavy. The Winchesters tend to be about 1/2 lb lighter. But the shorter barrels and good balance when unscoped does make for a relatively easy to carry rifle.
Criteria #5.
Marlin makes a nice rifle with good walnut wood and usually very good fit and finish. They also make a budget version with cheap wood and poorly finished wood and metal. The budget rifle will likely shoot every bit as good, but it isn't something I'd be proud to give my kids and grandkids. I'd hold out for one of the "nicer" versions over the Walmart version if this is important.
In fact I'd hold out for an older used rifle. I really like the ones made in the 1970's and early 80's much better than current production. They aren't that hard to find if you look around in pawn shops, gun shows and gun stores that deal with trade in's.
Yea, they've gone from chunky to trim and now back to chunky. Some of the guns from the 50's and 60's were chunkers too, but I can't figure out a pattern. The trimmest one I own was made in 1958.
Some of mine. #1 from left is 2005 production with fat forend. #2 is 1950's with fatty forend too. #5 is a 1958 rifle with trim forend. #3, #4, and #8 are from the 70's and #10 is a late 80s rifle. #9 and #11 are Winchesters. And as you can tell I'm not a fan of the pistol grip versions. The ones with straight grips are out there. It just takes a little more effort to find them. Only the rifle on the left was bought new.
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