I have a few complaints.
In low light I can see the dot, but the glass is so bad I can't see the target clearly. Kind'a defeats the purpose on a hunting or SD rifle. And they are not very precise. At handgun SD ranges maybe, but beyond 25 yards or so forget any precision. I've not tried one yet, but the small units that work on handguns do have my interest. I may give one a try.
My vision for normal stuff is actually pretty good, but at 63 I can no longer clearly focus on iron sights. I find a low powered conventional scope works best for me. All of my AR's and one hunting rifle have 1-4X or 1-6X conventional scopes on them. I find they work much better in low light. The much larger objective lets in a lot more light and I can easily see heavy cross hairs long after official sundown. And in total darkness I have a light mounted on the AR's that will illuminate targets 50-75 yards away. On 1X I find them faster for quick shots than either dots or irons. And I have the ability to go up to 4X or 6X for longer range precision shots.
There are many conventional scopes now with illuminated cross hairs that provide the best of both types. And then there is price. I can find a pretty good conventional scope for less than a budget dot sight, around $200. And at that price point a conventional scope can be pretty rugged.
I havent had an issue with the glass being a problem, at least no different than any other sight that uses glass. If for some reason youre having that problem, you can close the front cover (if you have one) and that should take care of that.
Ive always had good precision and accuracy with mine, even with the 4moa dots. 1'-1.5" groups with my AR's at 100 yards is pretty much the norm, if you can hold the aiming point with that dot, or use the top of the dot.
My problem with the red dots is, I have an astigmatism and the dot is more of a twinkling star than it is a dot. It was annoying at first, but I got used to it pretty quick, and dont even think about it now.
For me, as I got into my mid 40's, the red dots were a definite improvement over the irons, especially when shooting reactively. Speed and hits improved quite a bit, especially snap shooting. And while the dots dot help greatly as you get older, its not an age thing, I think everyone will see a big benefit to them.
Until recently, I was never really a "scope" person and prefered irons or the dots. I had one AR set up with a Leupold 1.5x5 on it, and thats OK, and had a 700V in 308 with a Sheperd BDC on it that was good too. But that was about it.
Like you, Im getting older and Im really seeing my eyes go quicker now. I recently picked up a couple of the Vortex Strike Eagle 1x8's for a couple of AR's, and have been pretty impressed with them. Im not really looking at them like a scope though, and more like a powered red dot. They do have the lighted reticle feature, and it is a help, especially against dark targets. They still arent as quick as the red dots to shoulder and shoot with though. I find the dot just to be quicker to pick up.
Back to the glass thing above, I do notice this to be more of an issue for me with the scopes than the red dots, and I wonder if it isnt more of an issue of where the optic is mounted. My red dots are mounted forward, away from my eye, where the scope, because of its eye relief forces you to have it close. With the scopes, I notice reflections from behind (I also have similar issues with my peep sights too), especially in certain light conditions that I dont see with my red dots. I could see the same thing happening if you had the red dot mounted close to the eye, as Ive seen some people do.
A couple of advantages with the forward mounted dots are, the sight isnt in your face and messing with your peripheral vision, you dont tend to get lost in the tube, as the dot is out in front of you and in the same plane as the irons and your cheek weld works the same. You arent trying to look through the tube to see the target. You shoot with both eyes open, and the dot just appears on the target where you are looking at it. Unless for some reason I focus on it, I dont even notice the body of the sight at all.