I keep this article bookmarked for just such conversations:
https://www.shootingtimes.com/editorial/ammunition_st_mamotaip_200909/100079
[periodical] Shooting Times, "Mysteries And Misconceptions Of The All-Important Primer;" Allan Jones; January 04, 2011
from the Shooting Times article:
"Most primer makers offer a standard and a Magnum primer in each size and application. The Magnum primer offers more power for challenging ignition scenarios. A large-capacity case, a heavily deterred propellant, or extremely cold weather (less than 20 degrees Fahrenheit) typically makes the Magnum primer desirable.
There are two ways to make a Magnum primer — either use more of the standard chemical mix to provide a longer-burning flame or change the mix to one with more aggressive burn characteristics. Prior to 1989, CCI used the first option in Magnum Rifle primers. After that, we switched to a mix optimized for spherical propellants that produced a 24-percent increase in flame temperature and a 16-percent boost in gas volume.
Literature from some propellant manufactures often says that their products do not require Magnum primers. This is perceived as a good thing because Magnum primers are made in smaller quantities and require more chemicals; therefore, they are more expensive. However, I had to take a different view, one based on real-world issues.
We tested loads at both maximum normal pressures and at the starting loads (some labs calculate start loads — we shot them). Standard primers caused no ignition issues at the max load but posted higher extreme variations in pressure and velocity in the lower pressure regimes of the start loads. In extreme cases, the start loads produced short delayed firings — probably in the range of 20 to 40 milliseconds but detectible to an experienced ballistician. Switching that propellant to a Magnum primer smoothed out the performance across the useful range of charge weights and completely eliminated the delays.
If I've recommended a Magnum primer in reloading data I've developed, it's because my lab results show it's needed."
There's more to it and it's about the best summary read you'll find from a genuine expert on the subject in any publication. Internet lore and forum posts aside, a lot of us DO things we'd never recommend; and some folks even recommend things they'd never actually do. I know small rifle and small pistol primers are almost interchangeable, under a very limited set of circumstances, but I won't recommend it because I don't have and can't find legitimate, tested and published loading data that says small rifle and small pistol primers should be interchanged and the circumstances where it's recommended.
also see:
"A primer on primers: rifle and handgun primers start everything going.." The Free Library. 2009 Publishers' Development Corporation 19 Oct. 2021