Tell her we are all going to die and can't take anything with us. Yes, we are going to leave this life experience the same way we entered, with nothing.Problem is, she doesn't spend a penny on herself for material stuff...ever.
Viking funeral............Hey now! I am still trying to find a loophole so I CAN take it with me LOL. If I ever figure it out I'll let you all know how to do it as well.
I spent 32 years sharing all the workload with my wife and the last 4 years doing everything including what honey-does she wanted that I could get done while taking care of her at the same time. I wish I could still be doing all of that.Bunch of softies we got around here...geez.
I'm firmly in the "beg forgiveness" camp, so to speak. Much like in the OP, except I don't volunteer to do anything.
She'll name off half a dozen things I should do to even things out, I promise to do at least half, figuring I'll eventually do one or 2 of them.
Pretty sure I've checked at least 5 off her list in the dozen years we've been together.