garyk/nm
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Background:
We live in a small town, where everyone seems to know everyone else's business.
My wife works in a less-than-safe (to my way of thinking, anyway) job. She works with parolees and probationers who also have drug/alcohol problems. She is in charge of monitoring their drug use (UA) and reporting to parole officers when there is a violation.
My wife lives in permanent, unconditional denial of the fact that there are bad guys in the world. Condition whiter-than-white. I had to insist (forcefully) that she not go on field calls to these folks homes by herself. And she argued about it!
Situation:
This AM, the wife informed me that over the weekend, while I was at work, she was in the front yard and one of her "clients" pulled up in front of the house and started giving her a hard time about failing a UA, insisting that it was the Sudafed he was taking which caused a false reading.Apparently ephedrine will show a positive for meth use.
Anyway, the guy left without any trouble. My first thought, and suggestion, was that this seems like a good time to take her out to the range and start lessons. Wrong! Now, my wife is not anti-gun(she lets me have my "toys"), but absolutely refuses to have anything to do with firearms. OK, she is a big girl and capable of making her own decisions(however short-sighted they may be) .
The problem is that we have a 13yo daughter who, because of our varied work schedules, is sometimes at home by herself, and sometimes just the two of them here.
How can I get the wife to change her mind about self-defense? I sincerely hope that it is not going to take one of them getting assaulted, or our home being invaded to get her to acknowledge reality. I can't be here all the time to look after them.
Sorry for the long post. This really has me worried and I hope you folks can give me some advice.
Gary
We live in a small town, where everyone seems to know everyone else's business.
My wife works in a less-than-safe (to my way of thinking, anyway) job. She works with parolees and probationers who also have drug/alcohol problems. She is in charge of monitoring their drug use (UA) and reporting to parole officers when there is a violation.
My wife lives in permanent, unconditional denial of the fact that there are bad guys in the world. Condition whiter-than-white. I had to insist (forcefully) that she not go on field calls to these folks homes by herself. And she argued about it!
Situation:
This AM, the wife informed me that over the weekend, while I was at work, she was in the front yard and one of her "clients" pulled up in front of the house and started giving her a hard time about failing a UA, insisting that it was the Sudafed he was taking which caused a false reading.Apparently ephedrine will show a positive for meth use.
Anyway, the guy left without any trouble. My first thought, and suggestion, was that this seems like a good time to take her out to the range and start lessons. Wrong! Now, my wife is not anti-gun(she lets me have my "toys"), but absolutely refuses to have anything to do with firearms. OK, she is a big girl and capable of making her own decisions(however short-sighted they may be) .
The problem is that we have a 13yo daughter who, because of our varied work schedules, is sometimes at home by herself, and sometimes just the two of them here.
How can I get the wife to change her mind about self-defense? I sincerely hope that it is not going to take one of them getting assaulted, or our home being invaded to get her to acknowledge reality. I can't be here all the time to look after them.
Sorry for the long post. This really has me worried and I hope you folks can give me some advice.
Gary