A fmj is a relatively thin copper jacket over a nearly pure lead core. The hard cast is a lead/antimony/tin alloy (mostly water quenched for extra hardness) throughout.
This partly describes the answer. Most fmj pistol bullets arent designed to be tough, just cover the core and function in the gun, especially the economy grade ammo. The so-called hard cast (pretty much all commercial cast bullets would qualify for the name) are a tougher bullet, though many feel the hardness can be overdone and end up being brittle rather than tough.
JTQs comment needs to be factored into the question. I think its either ignored or overlooked too often. Just because some boutique (or mainstream) ammo makers produce a load doesn't automatically mean its going to reliably function in any given model or individual example of a gun. I don't see many comment that they shot a couple hundred expensive loads to determine reliability. The idea seems more like "Hey, XYZ makes this load, just get them, and all your troubles are over". The common internet habit of just repeating what was heard, or making recommendations on things one has no firsthand use of or knowledge of, is often taken as a solid referral. Not all opinions are valid, unfortunately, however freely given.
The bull stuff one reads on the internet about problems with it's use are greatly overblown. Properly hardened and properly designed hard cast works just fine in any fire arm,
Thats a pretty definitive statement. Perhaps you could explain that to the people that actually had problems with them. PM-ing his contact info.
Edit: I agree with the part about cast should work in different barrels, and a "properly designed" bullet should work, but we don't know if any given bullet or load has such a bullet until its tried in a particular gun. Its also one thing if individuals with an example of ONE gun has great success with a certain load, when it comes to light that others, with more than an example of one, have problems, its worth paying attention and taking the time and expense to vet the load in
your particular gun before going in harms way so to speak. It may be overblown, but that doesn't mean it should be ignored. Its not a coincidence that most bullet designs for self loaders tend to be rounded nose profiles, they simply function better. Flat nosed bullets work better on game, and theres the rub. What works best on game isn't what functions most reliably in self loaders.