So, I think you're ok with that load especially if you like it. Firing pin drag is common in short-barreled pistols because of the limited space for recoil to take place. You don't have a short-barreled pistol and I'm a little surprised to see any. Spent primers look pretty good.
When I run a lot of hot loads, I change springs and add slide buffers to protect the slide and rails. I've used them for years in Hi-Powers and 1911s. Some don't like them for defensive use. The story is that they can move out of place and jam a pistol. I have not had that happen myself. Anyway, that's what I do. Wolff Springs shown above (used for 40-years) and these guys, but I have not used them before. Do research before you decide on a manufacturer. I'm not sure what "new model" means.
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If you're not shooting these loads on a steady basis, you're probably good.
I own 3 Springfields - an XDM, an XD subcompact, and an EMP. I think the Croats make a fine gun that is tougher than nails. Bug out quality.