Just FWIW, the FP stop doesn't "slip down"; what happens is just a bit more complicated, and you have to think outside those nice neat pictures of how the 1911 works.
When the slide comes back, it doesn't give the hammer a gentle push back and down. Especially with hot loads, it hits the hammer such a blow that the hammer flies completely free of the slide, moving down on its own momentum until it bounces off the grip safety.
Meanwhile, the firing pin has not returned from striking the primer and gun is recoiling upward. With the firing pin forward, the FP stop, obeying Mr. Newton, tries to remain where it is and moves down in relation to the slide. Most pictures make it look like that is impossible because the hammer is in contact with and holding it, but the hammer is not, as explained above.
The best suggestion (other than to reduce the load) is probably to peen or stake the FP stop. A stronger FP spring might solve the FP stop problem but create other problems, such as causing misfires.
Jim