I've always thought if you don't place your thumb on the safety, it might be better to have the older(standard) size safety with a strong detent.
People shoot in many different ways. Some hold their thumb under the safety and touching, others seem to "curl" their thumb down and are not close to the safety. A lot depends on hand size, etc, etc.
I shoot with a high grip and thumb on safety, fairly wide for comfort.
The advantages to thumb on safety, which also means a high grip, is better recoil control and you will never forget to release the safety.
Disadvantages can be that you can't release the grip safety properly all the time and I "read" some people drag the slide with their thumb, causing a malfunction. Both can be attended to a by a competent pistolsmith, at least for many people. Hand size and grip safeties can be a problem with a high hold and a 1911.
IMHO, the advantages are significant enough for someone to give the thumb on safety "a go". It took me awhile to get used to it, but now I think it's the best way to shoot a 1911. Others feel different.
The good news, if your gun has a beavertail( for the high hold), you can have a thumb safety fit for cheap and try it. If it doesn't work for you, go back to the original and no harm done.