Actually, the dimensional differences between the cartridges will not diminish the life of the gun that they are fired in.
The life of the cartridge case will be diminished if, say, a commercial .308 cartridge is fired in a NATO dimension 7.62X51 chamber.
This is also true of a commercial .223 case fired in a 5.56 NATO dimension chamber.
In other words, the chamber dimensions of a NATO chambered rifle run larger than the dimensions of a commercial sporting rifle chamber.
The maximum generated pressure curve generated by a NATO specification 5.56 cartridge is greater than that generated by a commercial .223 cartridge.
This is reversed in the .308 commercial verses NATO 7.62 cartridges with the NATO cartridges developing lower pressure curves than most of the commercial offerings.
The pressure curve of commercial full power large game cartridges runs higher than the NATO specification cartridges because these cartridges are loaded to near maximum to gain maximum ballistic capability when used for the hunting of larger and more dangerous game animals.
Most rifles meeting SAAMI proof specifications will handle the different cartridges on a limited basis but as a general rule, excessive pressures will show signs of such in individual rifles.
Again, in other words, If you are shooting 20 to 50 full power commercial cartridges in your NATO rifle for the purpose of hunting game animals and you are keeping your cartridge bullet weights in line with recommended bullet weights for the NATO dimension cartridge, in example, 150-168 grain weight for the 7.62X51, it is most unlikely your rifle will fail if it is designed and built correctly.
In that same general rule catagory, Semi auto military type sporting rifles chambered for .223 will accomodate 5.56 NATO dimension cartridges and .223 commercial dimension cartridges interchangeably, without issue.
Military type semi auto in 7.62X51 NATO should be used with NATO dimension cartridges when target and pleasure shooting where a large number of cartridges are fired.
There are few cartridges loaded to commercial standards that are recommended for these military style rifles for shooting in high volume applications, the higher pressures and thinner cartridge case wall dimensions can cause problems with function and reloading these cartridge casings after firing in a Military chamber can lead to case head seperation in a very short amount of case resizes.
Consequently, NATO dimension cartridges should not be fired in commercial style rifles regardless of action type.
The thicker case walls of the NATO dimension 7.62 cartridges tend to cause function problems in commercial rifles.