I don't have any experience with the Beretta, but I have a P232 that I have put about 5000rds through(about 3000rds FMJ, about 2000rds JHP). I find it to be a trustworthy pistol with very good accuracy and good handling for a .380 pistol. Nothing negative to say about the pistol other than the direct blowback design which recoils a bit and is more sensitive to ammo and limp wristing. However, it is the best of the blow back designs in my opinion. Competators would be the Bersa, CZ 83, Makarov, and Walther PPK, which have hit or miss records.
I work as an armorer for the Department of Interior and have processed probably 15-20 P230s/P232s a year for maintenance and repair. The only parts I have replaced on them consistantly are bent roll pins which occur from excessive dry firing without snap caps. Use snap caps to dry fire(A-zooms are great) and there isn't a problem. Other problems I've encountered such as feeding issues are usually corrected with a new recoil spring, or teaching the shooter to not limpwrist. Recoil springs should be replaced every 2500rds or every 4 years on the P230/P232(which ever comes first). Direct blow back pistols are more depended on spring tension than other designs. As far as ammunition goes, most JHPs will work just fine. I have had some feeding issues with Ranger Talons though. Stick with Hornady 90gr XTP if you can, or Hornady FTX Critical Defense.
Great .380 pistol though if you want a small carry piece that still has enough grip and weight to it to handle well and ensure that you can shoot well. I prefer to carry my P239 9mm off duty, but when I need something a little smaller and lighter I'll carry the P232.