If the case brass is thinner in certain brands of brass, while it is getting sized the same outside as other brass, it is getting sized less on the inside. This means without changing the adjustment of the flare die, that flaring will be less than on the thinner brass also, so I see little help with the sorting of brass in regards to neck tension, when using the same sizing die. If one is not over-belling the thicker brass, they certainly aren't over-belling the thinner stuff.
As I said, Lee readily admitted to me that there are issues with their standard .380 sizing die. Since my problem with neck tension in .380 (two years ago), virtually every thread I have read on gun forums about problems with neck tension in .380 came from folks using Lee dies. That tells me something loud and clear. I thought I was saving monies by getting Lee dies in .380 in the first place. The price of the "U" die and it's shipping cost(not found everywhere) doubled the cost of the die set. If I had known, I would have gotten a different brand. The fact that Lee knows they have an issue, but won't admit it until folks have an issue, has put a bad taste in my mouth. Lee's advice to me was to buy the "U" die or only use specific brands of brass(and they couldn't/wouldn't tell me what brands to use). I had issues with virtually every brand of brass I used, and was not about to throw away 1000 pieces or more of good brass because of a bad die.