I will split the difference and say carry both
I carry a .32ACP when I am off duty. I use the BERETTA Bobcat because it is light, concealable, recoil is mild and with the right ammo, it is 100% reliable.
I have shot smaller .32ACP pistols and found the recoil to be unpleasant.
I use foreign brand ball like S&B or AGUILA for practice. I found that the gun would catch the flat tip of WINCHESTER ball. REALLY DUMB DESIGN FEATURE OF WINCHESTER, in my opinion.
I use COR BON Powerball for carry ammo as it is 100% reliable with it.
Smaller .32ACP pistols kick harder because of the lighter weight and smaller grip area. Also, many smaller guns have really bad sights.
For the same reason, I avoid the really small 9m.m. pistols. I had a KAHR CW9 and sold it because I did not like shooting it. The gun worked fine, but the recoil was not for me.
I also have a BERETTA 82 in .32ACP in case we have another AMMO SHORTAGE. I could buy .32ACP ball in WALMART, but could not find .380ACP ammo anywhere or if I could, it was double the price that it should have been.
I know this is a large gun for a .32ACP, but it is a sweet shooter with .22lr like recoil and large enough to shoot well. It is also a 100% reliable shooter.
In larger guns, I prefer a .380ACP like the BERETTA 84 or SIG 230. The BERETTA holds 13 rounds in the magazine, has a double action trigger that can also be carried cocked an locked for those who like it. Good sights, mild recoil and is the most reliable .380ACP pistol I have ever fired.
As I get older, that combination of light recoil, absolute reliability, full size gun accuracy and large magazine capacity really appeal to me.
I also like the SIG 230 which has most of the WALTHER PP series advantages without the rotter trigger that I have found them to have. The 230 shoots well with excellent sights and a very smooth transition from double action to single action with a better safety system than the WALTHER'S in my experience (the SIG uses the same hammer dropping lever as the 226 and 229 pistols).
The biggest drawback on the SIG is the harder kick than the BERETTA due to the narrower grip and the SLOWER reload due to the heel position magazine release.
Also, the SIG is pickier. Mine will shoot HYDRO SHOK about 98%. It is 100% with REMINGTON 88grain JHP and that is what I carry in it.
I also like to shoot classic pocket pistols like the BROWNINT 1910 or COLT 1903. They can be as much fun as a .22lr, but provide a more realistic practice for defense pistols.