Happy to see I'm not the only guy with a a pistol caliber revolver jones.
The moon clips aren't too big an aggravation with the proper tools; the .45s are generally a lot less trouble than some of the 9mms.
As regards recoil, it depends on the gun and the load; still think a full sized 1911 is the mildest shooter of the lot. The lugged barrel 625s aren't bad, the alloy 325 is another matter.
There are two ways to look at the 325; use light loads for the range, and carry it with hardball or other full powered ammo. I load some light bullet/light loads in AutoRim cases.
The other 625s get my standard .45 load that runs in the autos, which is about 75'sec off full power hardball. The 3" rides pretty well in a shoulder rig.
Measured velocity is another wild card; some revolvers produce more velocity than the same load in an auto. Am off home station right now, so I can't quote numbers.
As regards ease of fire, Smith N frames respond well to tuning, and a good one really rolls thru nicely...the single action is superb.
Full disclosure, the .45s are range guns; a 365 is just a whole lot easier to carry.
Moon