If you make a life that is important for you to stay in NYC AND you're actively working to change the firearms laws within NYC you're "fighting behind enemy lines" and everyone should respect your decisions (regardless of how hopeless the odds may appear).
BUT if your shoulder isn't against that wheel with the folks making the effort to move RKBA forward out of the mire of NYC Anti laws you're not going to get much sympathy for complaining about the NYC Anti laws.
You earn the right to complain by working to change things for the better in most people's eyes.
The funny thing is, most of the complaining about NY and NYC is not done here by the residents, but rather by people living often thousands of miles away. It seems to be good sport to dump on NY at any given opportunity.
Before the SAFE act, NY, outside of NYC, was actually one of the better gun states. No registration of long arms, no ammo restrictions, no purchase cards necessary. But that didn't stop the experts from claiming how horrible it was. Why let facts get in the way?
NYS and several counties have gun associations, and do whatever lobbying they can. There are several lawsuits that have been filed in opposition to the SAFE act.
The other inaccurate theme here is how dangerous NYC is. Again, why let facts get in the way? NYC is one of the safest large cities in the country. Many cities in the so called "free"states are way more dangerous, and have much higher crime rates in all violent crime categories. But that doesn't stop the continuous diatribe about how dangerous NYC is.
I also get a kick out of how many allegedly left to preserve their gun rights. If you were doing well, making a good living, I'd venture to say very few would voluntarily leave. Sure, some may have left for that reason, but I'm thinking maybe some just weren't making it, but pointing fingers at NY is so much easier than admitting failure.
If it sounds like I'm tired of the wholesale dumping on NY, you'd be right. I no longer live there, but just find the prevailing anti NY attitude here obnoxious.
People here love to give their folksy parental anecdotes. Well, I'll give you one my mother used to say: if you don't have something nice to say, don't say anything at all. Not trying to stifle anyone, but enough is enough.