Same thing here. The first time it was in a .22-250 Savage, ugly like the picture above, and ruined the bolt head. I was relatively new to reloading and thought I did something wrong. A few years later a small, sooty split showed up in a SMLE- I thought it was a headspace issue or brass problem, but primers were now on my radar. I changed to CCI primers, and no problem. Then a month ago a tiny split showed up in a 1917. Mild to moderate loads in all.
Lesson learned. Just because most reloading problems are due to user error doesn't mean that yours is.