Deanimator
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No in the context of that particular incident it's a perfect characterization, and MINE. I attribute it to nobody else.Either way "falling on your sword" is a mischaracterization of the choice.
1. Police handling of this incident was characterized by non, mis or malfeasance, every step of the way. That doesn't bode well for your coming out of an intervention legally unscathed.
2. Abbate stomped a woman into the ground for refusing to serve him. Because of how this was handled by the police, we don't know if he was armed or not. Intervening is betting your life that he wasn't armed and that he wouldn't use his firearm.
3. I never said you SHOULDN'T intervene. I said that intervening was 100% downsides and other than "doing the right thing" there were NO upsides. What I DID say is that you shouldn't badmouth somebody with a family who chose not to get shot, arrested, and or pauperized by intervening.
I'd probably have intervened, and quite violently. But then I have a pretty unquenchable hatred for 250+lb. men who stomp 117lb. women. I also don't have a family to support. If I go to jail on trumped up charges or get shot, I'm the only one who gets hurt. But I still get hurt. That's falling on your sword, albeit willingly.
Doing the "right thing" in this case amounts to walking into the abyss with no assurance that you'll ever walk out. I respect somebody who'll do that. I can't fault somebody who doesn't want to take his family with him on the trip.