There is a lot to break down here. First, are you saying that when you load you're getting an OAL variance from 1.13-1.19? or are you saying that you're trying to find a good OAL somewhere between those numbers? If you're loads are fluctuating that much there is something else going on. If you're just looking for a good OAL I personally like 1.145 for most of our RN bullets (I own RMR). Your first post however says that you're getting between 1.113" and 1.118? If thats the case you're fine. 1.12" is a pretty common oal if not a little short. That said, theres a lot of stupid gun manufacturers out there who've made barrels with no leade so loaders are forced to seat bullets stupid deep.
Now, as an aside, I was doing some troubleshooting for a customer this weekend who called to complain about bullets that were way undersized. (The way we make our bullets it is impossible to be undersized). He said bullets were falling out of loaded cases and he measured them at .340". That's crazy undersized. That basically told me 90% of what I needed to know. After having the usual "I've been doing this for 40 years and never had this issue with any bullets but yours" discussion, I finally got him to answer a few of my questions. He was using 147s and mixed range brass with a seating depth of 1.10." On top of that he was using a lee factory crimp die to "get rid of the bulge."
Here's what he was doing. He was seating the bullet so deep into the casing that the base was getting into the thicker part of the brass and causing it to bulge out. Then, he was squishing the bulge back out with the lee factory crimp die. Unfortunately what that does is resize the bullet and destroy any neck tension that it might have had. I had him raise his oal to 1.135" and use a different crimp die and his problem completely disappeared.
So, the moral of the story is you can seat too deep. This can cause two issues. First, it can needlessly increase pressures. Second, it can make ammo that won't chamber or it can result in undersized bullets. So, my advice is to seat as long as is practical. Just remember that you have to have enough bullet in the casing for neck tension AND the bullet can't contact the rifling until you've pulled the trigger. If the round won't spin in the chamber it's usually because the OAL is too long and the bullet is touching the rifling. It can also be a bulged casing but it's usually not.
Oh, and the second moral of the story is sometimes it's okay to ask a professional for help even if you have 40 years of experience.