I really don't care to get into a whole .357 vs. 10mm thing ... and if you've tried moon clips and don't like 'em, I understand and I'd probably go with .357 over .41 just for the cost of practice ammo (presuming you don't handload) and I'm all about practicing to become proficient.
Having said that, I'd like to comment ... just a bit ... on what was said about 10mm vs. .357. I contacted CorBon to determine what gun they used to get the velocities they got with 10mm ... they indicated a box-stock Glock 20. I never asked 'em what gun they used for .357 (as I didn't care about that at the time) but, I'd bet at least $20 it was longer than 4" ... and even then, with their 180gr BCSP load, they got 1265fps (compared to 1320fps for 10mm). Now, personally, while I agree that's a significant difference, I wouldn't discount one or the other for it. But, as I understand it the closer you get to 2" in bbl length, the quicker you lose velocity. As such, and considering that CorBon is unlikely to download the .357 (for a revo) compared to 10mm (for an auto) for just about any reason, I'd be very hestitant to proclaim that .357 is simply outright superior from a 4" bbl compared to 10mm from a Glock 20 or just about any similar length bbl. Of course, I understand that an auto will typically "soak" up a little velocity, but, as I mentioned, CorBon's superior numbers were obtained from an auto, therefore, I'd expect the velocity to improve just a bit from a revo ... thereby further increasing the disparity.
Also, a couple things about .41mag. First, I'm thinkin' factory ammo is few and far between and not likely priced well (compared to Winchester white-box 240gr JSP for $20/50 and American Eagle 240gr JHP for $17/50 ... great practice ammo). Second, again referring to CorBon, their .41 210gr JHP (again, whitetail ain't grizzlies) load only offers 150ft/lbs more energy (same fps, just a heavier bullet) compared to .44mag which offers closer to 500ft/lbs more energy. In other words, I don't see, for the cost, .41mag buying you much more than 10mm or .357 ... and, if you really think you need more (which you don't for whitetail ... unless you plan on using a scope and practicing a LOT), than .44mag gives you a lot more. And, if I were seriously thinking of .44mag for whitetail, I'd seriously consider handloading some 280gr BCSP at closer to 1000fps - 1100fps (presuming most is loaded closer to 1400fps).
Incidentally, I thought I heard somewhere that Ted Nugent used a Glock 20 for whitetail and feral pigs ... then again, how could anyone possibly consider Ted a true sportsman?