I have been using 0.041" pins. They are small enough where once in a while, 2 pins gets jammed in the flash hole. Recently, I also found a pin jammed sideways at the bottom of a 223 brass.
I was going to purchase the 0.047" size that is being recommended to replace my current pins, but decided to give 1/8" diagonal cut pins a try instead.
So far, after 5 batches, I am really liking the new 1/8" pins. There is no chance for them to get stuck in primer flash holes. They seem to do a better job at cleaning primer pockets. They are considerably heavier than the pins, and thus dont tend to want to escape and bounce all over the place.
Only down side is that these pins are 304 stainless steel. They are only mildly magnetic. So magnetic traps to prevent pins going down the drain may not be as effective. I use a small drain stainer to capture escapees, so not an issue for me. In the 5 batches, only 1 pin escaped when pouring the water out that was caught with the drain strainer. Where as I normally get several of the smaller pins escaping each batch.
If you want to give them a try, search for 1/8" diagonal pins by BC precision on eBay.