For all of those that complain they can't move, they can. I begged, borrowed, but didn't steal to get here. I had just gotten laid off, on umemployment and that was my cue.
I took a week and spent it with my buddy in Phoenix, who let me stay for free (that's the borrowed part). Found a job within two days (that's the begging part), hired on, paperwork ready to go with direct deposit. Spent the rest of the week looking for a decent place to live at a reasonable price in a decent area. No luck there and had to get back to CA. Within 3 days my buddy calls and tells me he found a pretty nice place, he went and looked at it. Wow, nice place, good price, decent area (North Phoenix,near Scottsdale). I called, got the paperwork faxed (more begging), money Paypal'd and was here and moved in within 2 weeks of finding a job.
Best thing that I've ever done, but something I should've done much sooner.
You have to really want to do it, kinda like quitting smoking. Otherwise, you're gonna sit and complain, and complain, and complain. To be honest, I'm sick of hearing Californians complaining, and I was sick of it when I lived there. Get off your butt and do it, or, shut up the whining.
Sad thing about this, I've been called a coward for cutting and running instead of doing something. I tried to do something, CA is a lost cause, it just took me too long to realize it.
Have a great gun carryin' Kenpo day
Clyde