Rexrider said:
I am now bowing out of this thread. You are welcome to the last word.
Rexrider, please don't bow out of the thread. It's me that should do that. (But I won't; I'll stay and moderate my tone.)
You didn't deserve my harsh words or interpretation of your opinion. Please accept my apology. Oleg is right: we can discuss his art without throwing barbs.
Here's the reason for my outburst. (Not an excuse, but it IS a reason.) I'm under a HUGE amount of stress right now. <sad violins playing in the background> I moved into my new studio over a month ago BEFORE the construction work was finished. All of my belongings are in boxes, now under saw dust, insulation dust & (as of yesterday) sheet rock dust. I've moved everything I own at least 5 times in the studio to get things out of the way of various workers, so everything is in utter chaos. To make matters worse, there's no heat in here (getting the heating contractor here has been like pulling teeth) and it's 28 degrees outside (not much warmer in here; my computer is my main source of heat.
Exacerbating that, there was a memorial service in a nearby city last night (that I was unable to attend to vent my grief) for a close friend who has been lost in the wilderness of Hawaii for over a month and is now presumed dead.
All that just built up on this thread last night. I sort of snapped.
Again, my apologies to you, Oleg & others for my words & tone.
I will say that, IMO, it is possible that some men could be affected in the way that I suggested. I will not assert that is the case for you because I don't know you, and it was wrong for me to suggest it. Art evokes different feelings in different people. I am no different.
Now, I've had 4 hours of sleep. The thermometer in my studio reads degrees. I've got to go hang more drywall.
Best regards,
Nem
PS: I've sent this to Rexrider via PM.