There are all manner of opinions that support all kinds of comments. To say that there is only one type of appropriate action, trigger pull or what have you is denying an individual's unique needs. What one man opines as the best for him may not be the best for someone else. The variables are just far to complex and manifold to suggest otherwise and be able to prove conclusively.
Over the years I've acquired way too many of basically every action out there. My grown children have been the recipients of many of these guns lately and they are facing the same decision you are. Each of them has the opportunity to become familiar with many different type guns. I know them well and I can truthfully say it is very unlikely they will pick the same type, make, model, action or caliber. The same hold true for my wife (who is most vocal about it) and has been cussed and discussed on every forum I've ever been a member of. And to my knowledge the "issue" has never been settled.