Comparison of 9mm and 45acp XDs recoil

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Zaydok Allen

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Greetings all,

I'm trying to help my girlfriend pick out her first carry gun. We have looked at a lot of models and have it narrowed down.

However, she really likes my SA XDs, but does not like shooting it because the recoil hurts her hand in 45acp. So I'm wondering how the recoil is on the 9mm version.

How pleasant is the 9mm XDs to shoot compared to the 45acp. She is interested in the 3.3" version.

Thanks
 
My wife enjoys shooting most 9mm's, even her Ruger LC9s, which is a pretty small and light gun. She didn't even mind shooting my Model 29-2, with light 44 Magnum loads.

She did not enjoy shooting my full sized Tisas 1911 in 45 ACP.

Don't know if that helps or not.
 
The XDs 9mm is going to me much more pleasant to shoot than that gun in 45.
Even moreso if you happened to be shooting SD loads from the 45.

That being said, one thing that is certain about the XDs is that is does not do well if you limp wrist it. There are scores of people who have had issues with a failure to return to battery due to limp wristing. I am not saying your GF is doing that, just something to watch out for.

IMHO the XDs is one of the best carry guns out there on the market. It is slimmer than a G36 and mine has been 100% reliable with whatever I have fed it.

Ultimately, the only way to determine if she likes it or not is to find a range that has one for rent, or find someone at your local club who would be willing to let her shoot it. Different people perceive recoil differently and what happens to be perfectly acceptable to one may be distasteful to another.
 
Gotta ask ... is your girlfriend one of the "angry, toothless women" that fill your land?

If so, I would hesitate giving her a gun ... or a knife, or a hatchet, or a large stick ... :evil:

Sorry ... couldn't resist ... ;)
:) Ha! I better change that. I wrote that before meeting my girl. Though to be fair, she lives in the city 40 miles to the north of me. So the description of my town still applies. Nice catch man.

My girl is very gun friendly. She listens closely when I instruct her, she wants to know the whys of the things I tell her, and she really wants to learn. I've found a good one. She seems to like me too. God knows why.
 
The XDs 9mm is going to me much more pleasant to shoot than that gun in 45.
Even moreso if you happened to be shooting SD loads from the 45.

That being said, one thing that is certain about the XDs is that is does not do well if you limp wrist it. There are scores of people who have had issues with a failure to return to battery due to limp wristing. I am not saying your GF is doing that, just something to watch out for.

IMHO the XDs is one of the best carry guns out there on the market. It is slimmer than a G36 and mine has been 100% reliable with whatever I have fed it.

Ultimately, the only way to determine if she likes it or not is to find a range that has one for rent, or find someone at your local club who would be willing to let her shoot it. Different people perceive recoil differently and what happens to be perfectly acceptable to one may be distasteful to another.
Limp wristing could certainly be a concern. She didn't limp wrist mine, but she only shot one magazine due to her dislike for the recoil. She DID have difficulty manipulating the slide. I've heard the 9mm is easier to manipulate though.

I'm trying to track down a rental but I've had no luck. I live in a low population region that only has one rental range. As far as I have seen, they don't have a 9mm to try.

She liked my VP9 and HK45 a lot. She also likes a 1911, but those don't really help in this selection.
 
If only Springfield Armory would chamber their XD in 32 ACP !


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If she likes your HKs, how about a P30SK with the LEM trigger?

(Guess I should have put this in the other thread...oops.)
 
I found the recoil of my xd in .45 a little too much. I now carry a glock 19 - problem solved.
 
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For sure the 9mm. My Wife (who is a very good shot) loves her 9mm Shield but refuses to shoot my XD-45 4" a gun that when fully loaded weights about twice as much as the Shield, she says it kicks too d**n much!
If you can rent or borrow a .45 let her try it. If she likes the 9mm and can shoot it well, that's it.
 
If she likes your HKs, how about a P30SK with the LEM trigger?

(Guess I should have put this in the other thread...oops.)
I had her handle a P30SK and while she liked the feel, it seemed a bit larger than she wanted to carry. I want one though, so maybe I'll get one and have her shoot it. She may fall in love.
 
If you can rent or borrow a .45 let her try it. If she likes the 9mm and can shoot it well, that's it.

I have an XDs in 45, and she doesn't like shooting it due to recoil. But she likes the feel of it in her hand. That's why I'm asking about the recoil of the 9mm.
 
I only have a .357 sig in a 4" xd. I find it rather pleasant to shoot. I find .45 in any form of a pistol a pleasant shooter. I carry and shoot a keltec pf9 in my pocket........i find it pleasant to shoot. I would expect in a compact the xd would be a nicer shooter in 9mm than my keltec.

My wife shoots all my guns and only doesnt like the glock 20 with full power rounds. I think its more the size of the gun than the recoil, but she doesnt like it either way.

All that said.......if .45 hurts her hand i think any caliber 9mm or bigger will hurt her hand in a small pistol. Im gonna assume .380 is out of the question for her, so I'll leave that off the table.
 
XDS grips are not hand friendly

I have it in 9mm and it is really mild recoil wise but the grip hurts my hand because the texture is pretty aggressive.

Someone posted cutting a section out of a bicycle inner tube and putting in on over the grip. It works like a charm for me. You still have a non slip grip but the sharp/rough edges are tamed somewhat. At some point it will probably start to split and I will cut out another section and move on.
 
Have a xds 45 for carry when concealment matters more, and a 9mm xds for practice. The 9mm has considerably less recoil, and a whole lot less "lift". On the 45, actually sanded/beveled the edges of the texturing, making it more comfortable to shoot.

Am of opinion any smaller/lighter semi-auto needs a firm grip for function/accuracy. The smaller grip helps a lot with concealability.
 
Is she set on the Springfield XD series, or is she willing to try other manufacturers? If so, why not have her try one of the CZ 75 series, she'll have a choice of polymer, alloy, or steel framed versions

The basic all steel 75B has the best ergos of any 9mm, the steel frame just soaks up the already minuscule recoil of the 9mm cartridge, it can be a tad heavy for concealed carry, but with the right carry setup, it's a minor issue
 
Here is something to consider if you are looking at 3" barrels. The 45acp is a slow moving cartridge. It was made for a 5" barrel. Out of a 3" barrel it loses a lot of velocity. At even lower velocities, it often does not expand as designed. You lose most of the benefit of the 45 over the 9mm if it does not expand AND it has a lot more recoil. In my head, the answer is clear.
 
I shot a full-size XD 9mm back-to-back with a compact M&P 9mm, and was shocked at how much softer-shooting the M&P felt despite its smaller size and lighter weight. Just another idea to consider.
 
The 9mm XDS is 2 ounces heavier empty than the 45acp version. That should help some with the recoil.
 
Thanks for the input gents. I think I need to clarify some points .

Have a xds 45 for carry when concealment matters more, and a 9mm xds for practice. The 9mm has considerably less recoil, and a whole lot less "lift". On the 45, actually sanded/beveled the edges of the texturing, making it more comfortable to shoot.

Very helpful. Thank you.

Is she set on the Springfield XD series, or is she willing to try other manufacturers? If so, why not have her try one of the CZ 75 series, she'll have a choice of polymer, alloy, or steel framed versions

The basic all steel 75B has the best ergos of any 9mm, the steel frame just soaks up the already minuscule recoil of the 9mm cartridge, it can be a tad heavy for concealed carry, but with the right carry setup, it's a minor issue

XDs as in the single stack 9mm and 45 acp carry guns, not as in XD's the plural of XD. She isn't interested in a full size gun right now. She wants something smallish and lightish for carry. So while I agree that CZ makes some good guns, keep in mind that ergos are strictly a matter of opinion. They suit me fine, but there are other guns I find far more ergonomic, and only she can decide what feels right for her. A CZ Rami is a possibility though. The problem is none of the local shops have one for her to try on.

Also, she is 5'4" and wears typical form fitting women's clothes. A CZ 75 will be too large for her to conceal on her body well, and is heavier than she wants to carry.

No, she is not set on SA as a manufacturer, the reason I'm asking this question is because she likes the feel of my XDs in 45, but not the recoil. She is trying on a lot of different guns to see what she likes.

Here is something to consider if you are looking at 3" barrels. The 45acp is a slow moving cartridge. It was made for a 5" barrel. Out of a 3" barrel it loses a lot of velocity. At even lower velocities, it often does not expand as designed. You lose most of the benefit of the 45 over the 9mm if it does not expand AND it has a lot more recoil. In my head, the answer is clear.

Sigh....... This is a concern with someone who is carrying the XDs 45, like myself. However, before buying mine 4 years ago, I consulted BBTI (http://www.ballisticsbytheinch.com/45auto2.html), as well as a number of youtube tests to see how the 3.3" barrel worked with expansion. I am satisfied that MY carry gun will work properly, and the 45 will expand as intended. But I regularly carry +p ammo in MY gun to make sure it expands.

My GF has no intention of carrying a 45. She is looking for a 9mm.

The 9mm XDS is 2 ounces heavier empty than the 45acp version. That should help some with the recoil.
True. That will help.
 
Have a xds 45 for carry when concealment matters more, and a 9mm xds for practice. The 9mm has considerably less recoil, and a whole lot less "lift". On the 45, actually sanded/beveled the edges of the texturing, making it more comfortable to shoot.

Am of opinion any smaller/lighter semi-auto needs a firm grip for function/accuracy. The smaller grip helps a lot with concealability.
So is the slide easier to manipulate on the 9mm version? She had a really hard time racking the slide on my gun.
 
Getting close to a purchase and the 9mm XDs is looking more and more like the first attempt my gal is gonna make. So, I'm just bumping this thread one last time incase anyone has any further comments.

Unfortunately, the one rental range in my area does not have one to try, so we are leaning towards just purchasing, and if it agrees with her, great. If not, it'll get traded.
 
I have the XDS with 4 inch barrels in both 9mm and 45. For me, the difference in recoil is noticeable. I can shoot the 9 during an extended range session without thinking about the recoil. I can't say the same about the 45, as I do start to feel the recoil after a while.
 
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