The VT incident is a very grave one, but i do have a bone to pick. Why is it that when something of this caliber happens, every blames the media? Such things like violent video games and gorry movies. Why haven't people realized that its all on the parents. I wasn't allowed to play violent video games until my parents knew i could tell the differece between "real" and "fake". To me, this just sends a message to parents that you dont really have to take the blame for your childrens mistakes. You can just blame it on DOOM and 300. This can also be applied to gun control. if parents actually teach their children then maybe we can avoid these incidents more often.