Come on now 'tuner, you know reloaders and math.......
In any event- at full charge, you aren't likely going to notice a big difference.
I notice a difference between full charges of H110 and Unique... that has little to do with the speed of the powder.
Using a lower bullet weight will allow you to reach terminally effective hollowpoint deployment speeds without snapping your wrist off.
I suppose you could go lower than me in the 200-215 range , to the 185's if you wanted to... I'm pretty sure you could get those up to ICBM speeds.
But at the end of the graph, you start to see both sides of the energy equation. I like the speeds of super light bullets- but there is a point where energy gained = bullet destroyed, and thats no good either.
In direct response to your question :
Specifically, would H110/296 have a "softer", more gradual recoil than 2400 in maximum .44 magnum loads?
Warning- duplicating the following could put your eye out...don't.
The max I have ever charged a 44 mag load is 29grs of h110 with a 200 gr bullet, and 25grs with a 240.
There was absolutely nothing soft about it.
I have regularly loaded to 28 grs behind a 200, and 23 grs behind a 240.
There was absolutely nothing soft about that either.
I now regularly load 215 grs with about 9 grs of unique during my current test cycle. 8grs was softer- 9 is still plenty soft.
Do the math. Man or beast- on the business end, you'd still be about double as dead as you would with a 45ACP round, and thats good enough for me.
I've shot max loads of 2400, HS-6, and AA9- there was nothing noticeably mild about any of them. I realized the hs-6 was softer for a bit- then relized I wasn't using magnum primers, and found out why......... once it was all burning, it felt just the same.