Does your spouse "Get it?"

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My wife often does the "eye roll" when I holster my weapon before going out to dinner or shopping. We recently went into a liquor store, and when she saw the sign on the door stating that "The unlicensed possession of a handgun was a felony", she wheeled around and faced me and said "do you see that sign?". "Yes," I say, "it says UNLICENSED, and I am licensed, so that does not apply to me."

Today we take off for a Christmas shopping session, and as we start to get out of the car, she says "do you have your pistol?". I reply, "of course, why?", "Well," says she, "with the events of the last couple of days you never know. I feel better if you have your pistol."

I think she finally gets it!

Does your spouse "get it?".
 
Media Coverage of Mall Shooting Fails to Reveal Mall's Gun-Free-Zone Status Thursday, December 06, 2007

By John R. Lott, Jr.

The horrible tragedy at the Westroads Mall in Omaha, Neb. received a lot of attention Wednesday and Thursday. It should have. Eight people were killed, and five were wounded.

A Google news search using the phrase "Omaha Mall Shooting" finds an incredible 2,794 news stories worldwide for the last day. From India and Taiwan to Britain and Austria, there are probably few people in the world who haven’t heard about this tragedy.

But despite the massive news coverage, none of the media coverage, at least by 10 a.m. Thursday, mentioned this central fact: Yet another attack occurred in a gun-free zone.

Surely, with all the reporters who appear at these crime scenes and seemingly interview virtually everyone there, why didn’t one simply mention the signs that ban guns from the premises?

Nebraska allows people to carry permitted concealed handguns, but it allows property owners, such as the Westroads Mall, to post signs banning permit holders from legally carrying guns on their property.

The same was true for the attack at the Trolley Square Mall in Utah in February (a copy of the sign at the mall can be seen here). But again the media coverage ignored this fact. Possibly the ban there was even more noteworthy because the off-duty police officer who stopped the attack fortunately violated the ban by taking his gun in with him when he went shopping.

Yet even then, the officer "was at the opposite end and on a different floor of the convoluted Trolley Square complex when the shooting began. By the time he became aware of the shooting and managed to track down and confront Talovic [the killer], three minutes had elapsed."

There are plenty of cases every year where permit holders stop what would have been multiple victim shootings every year, but they rarely receive any news coverage. Take a case this year in Memphis, where WBIR-TV reported a gunman started "firing a pistol beside a busy city street" and was stopped by two permit holders before anyone was harmed.

When will part of the media coverage on these multiple-victim public shootings be whether guns were banned where the attack occurred? While the media has begun to cover whether teachers can have guns at school or the almost 8,000 college students across the country who protested gun-free zones on their campuses, the media haven’t started checking what are the rules where these attacks occur.

Surely, the news stories carry detailed information on the weapon used (in this case, a rifle) and the number of ammunition clips (apparently, two). But if these aspects of the story are deemed important for understanding what happened, why isn’t it also important that the attack occurred where guns were banned? Isn’t it important to know why all the victims were disarmed?

Few know that Dylan Klebold, one of the two Columbine killers, closely was following Colorado legislation that would have allowed citizens to carry a concealed handgun. Klebold strongly opposed the legislation and openly talked about it.

No wonder, as the bill being debated would have allowed permitted guns to be carried on school property. It is quite a coincidence that he attacked the Columbine High School the very day the legislature was scheduled to vote on the bill.

Despite the lack of news coverage, people are beginning to notice what research has shown for years: Multiple-victim public shootings keep occurring in places where guns already are banned. Forty states have broad right-to-carry laws, but even within these states it is the "gun-free zones," not other public places, where the attacks happen.

People know the list: Virginia Tech saw 32 murdered earlier this year; the Columbine High School shooting left 13 murdered in 1999; Luby's Cafeteria in Killeen, Texas, had 23 who were fatally shot by a deranged man in 1991; and a McDonald's in Southern California had 21 people shot dead by an unemployed security guard in 1984.

All these attacks — indeed, all attacks involving more than a small number of people being killed — happened in gun-free zones.

In recent years, similar attacks have occurred across the world, including in Australia, France, Germany and Britain. Do all these countries lack enough gun-control laws? Hardly. The reverse is more accurate.

The law-abiding, not criminals, are obeying the rules. Disarming the victims simply means that the killers have less to fear. As Wednesday's attack demonstrated yet again, police are important, but they almost always arrive at the crime scene after the crime has occurred.

The longer it takes for someone to arrive on the scene with a gun, the more people who will be harmed by such an attack.

Most people understand that guns deter criminals. If a killer were stalking your family, would you feel safer putting a sign out front announcing, "This Home Is a Gun-Free Zone"? But that is what the Westroads Mall did.

John Lott is the author of Freedomnomics, upon which this piece draws, and a senior research scholar at the University of Maryland.
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I think your wife just doesn't think as deeply about firearms as you. Let me know if you have a discussion later about firearms and she starts going off about how she feels unsafe with you carrying. I’ll bet that her thought process is superficial with respect to firearms. Don't be excited one way or the other about her thoughts here.

My girlfriend is STARTING to get it. She now understands that her lax attitude about firearms is grounds for me breaking up with her. That may sound harsh, but think about it. Firearms create a potential liability that's huge. It just takes a split second to mess up big time. My girlfriend is all up in my bedroom and personal space. It would be a liability to have someone inside my personal space who doesn't understand the seriousness of firearms. She now realizes the firearms aren't going anywhere. So, she’s coming around.
 
It took some time when we were dating to get her to fully "get it". She is pretty good. Better than your average person, she doesn't roll her eyes at me or anything.
 
Mine "Gets It" just fine. When we first met, she was a city girl who had never been around guns and such. We went on a few dates and hit it off pretty good. Soon we started going camping with friends and such. We introduced her to firearms, 4-wheeling, and other outdoor activities. She has learned to handle a revolver well, but she is not all that interested in shooting for sport.

As time progressed, we married and started a family. Now, she has become a strong proponent of having a firearm for defensive purposes. She is quite happy that I am here and able to defend our family should a situation arise. If California would get their act together and realize the benefit of honest folks having CCW permits, she would be all for us both getting one. We live in one of the most liberal anti-gun parts of this state (also one of the most violent). As it stands, we carry a weapon and some provisions in our vehicles; but, per our local laws, that weapon is not easily accessible for an immediate threat. It has proved it's worth a few times where we have found ourselves engaged in a prolonged threat situation. We agree that my first order is to protect our family from harm; if that means being in violation of some local ordinance, so be it.
 
I dont know if my wife "gets it" but she respects the fact that im into guns and carry. Though that doesnt mean that she likes guns. Yes she has been shooting with me a few times. I guess guns just dont do it for her.

Sometimes she rolls her eyes or gives me the angry/annoyed look when she sees me grab my gun while saying something to the effect of "why do you HAVE to carry a gun?"

But then there are other times when we will be taking a walk late at night (i work second shift) and coming to somewhat darker areas or passing rowdy/suspicious people when she will say "do you have your gun or your knife or something?"

So even though she isnt crazy about guns, she understands the reality that they can offer protection and at the very least make you *feel* safe.
 
My wife thinks guns are great - loves to shoot - carries - encourages me to buy all the guns I want - honest....

She also loves animals - not in the PETA/nutball sense, just really likes 'em and as a result won't hunt or kill anything (but will eat all the elk steak I can bring home) - on the other hand, she'd shoot a human BG in her house or posing a deadly threat in a parking lot in a heartbeat. Won't accompany me to elk camp.

She gets it for sure and I don't complain much :D
 
Mine is alomst there

She started out as a rabid anti. Slow and steady boys. Slow and steady. Anyone with at least half a brain will eventually come around. Even those who choose to not own a gun themselves will eventually see that even though they do not want to, that others still have a right to, but more so, a good reason to.
 
Yep. She get it.

She packs a G26 and/or a snubby, and completely understands and supports the 2nd, under its original constructionist interpretation.

If she could, she'd probably have a paladin battery in the front yard.
 
Yup. Sometimes when she asks "do you have protection?" It takes me a second to realize she's talking about my CCW.
 
my wife used to be like that, but she now is all for it, and gets it all the way as a matter of fact she is gona attend a ccw class and get her nc ccw while i am deployed, she has done a total 180 degreesand i am so glad.
 
Yep, she gets it, albeit late in life. She had a session a couple of weeks ago with a firearms instruction to "learn how to shoot" her Beretta Cougar and is practicing regularly. Her goal is to get her concealed carry license.

She's not a gun nut like I am, but I have never received a negative comment from her about my affliction. She came to realize the value of firearms for defense long ago, but wasn't "ready" to assume the responsibility until recently. I don't think she will ever enjoy firearms like I do - she sees a gun as a tool, not as something to have fun at the range with.
 
My wife doesn't just get it she has it too!

Both of us carry 24-7 where legal and stay out of where it is not as much as possible.
 
I don't "get it"?

Why would you marry someone who has a radically different view than your own? It will be a sore point throughout your entire relationship. If you cannot make your intended see your rationale before you tie the knot what makes you think you will afterwards. Either you believe in your choices or you don't... and he/she may be thinking like you... "give me some time and I will make him/her see the light!" In something as important as personal and family safety there should be some concensus. IMO


DogBonz said:
She started out as a rabid anti. Slow and steady boys. Slow and steady. Anyone with at least half a brain will eventually come around.
Why would you marry anyone with half a brain?:neener:
 
Mine accompanied me to FrontSight for a 4 day handgun course and by the end of the first day she said "THIS IS SO MUCH FUN!"
Now my life is much easier...!
 
Why would you marry someone who has a radically different view than your own?

Because at the time CCW was not legal where we were and I was not otherwise doing anything with guns. It seemed to be a non-issue.

Fortunately, when CCW was made legal, she changed her own mind with no pressure from me. Now, if I ask politely, I get to borrow her guns.
 
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