Does your spouse "Get it?"

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Took a while, but my wife gets it. We both agree on safety measures (locking the gun up to keep it safe from the kids, and also vice versa). While CCW isn't allowed in my state, she actually mentioned getting a pistol to keep in her desk since she realized she's largely defenseless otherwise while at home! That took me back (it's also a very sexy image ;) )
 
Had this conversation a few days ago:

Wife: My aunt invited us to a Christmas party at her work this year. I would really like us to go, OK?

Me: Is this the Aunt that works at the Casino?

Wife: Yeah, so?

Me: It's illegal to carry at the Casino, its on the reservation. We would have to leave the guns at home.

Wife: To hell with that! I'm not driving all the way out there with no protection!

Me: :D



I was so proud of her at that moment, so yeah you could say my wife "gets it". It wasn't always this way, but time and patience won out in the end.

I'm a lucky guy.
 
Not only does my very soon to be wife(next month) get it, she has great taste in guns.

There's a Browning Hi Power on each nightstand :)
 
yes, she does. First marriage "ended" after 3 trips to hospital and she was waiting behind her closed apartment door with a little .380 pointed at it and her certified mentally ill/abusive husband (seperation and divorce was in progress) cops knocked on the door after they arrested the sicko with a knife and screw driver on him "it's us, the police, you can put the gun down and let us in."
Jump ahead 4 years and when we started dating she was pro-gun to start with. my Aux police work helped and when Ohio offered CCW she supported me getting it. She goes to range but does not feel the need for ccw but there have been plenty of times when we are together that she felt better knowing that I am armed, there have been a few times at home that she was happy to know that she knew where the firearms where, how to get to them quickly and that she was able to use them properly (except 12 guage);)
I don't go crazy, about 1 gun purchase every year or so, we are very good at spending less then we make and save a fair amount yearly. Yes i am blessed to have such a ladie and my only advise to others is DON'T PUSH HER, little by little some of my friends wifes have come around. The more husbands bring there pro-hubbywithgun's around, the more they rub off on the other wifes, most of the resistance my wife has informed me of is the husbands spending like 6 year olds, hiding purchases and so forth. Not a cheap hobby and until wife understands it's like us commenting on her buying another $600. purse. ( i know they don't cost that much, but they don't understand WHY ya need another gun.)
 
Oh, my wife gets it! She insisted that we should take shooting lessons (neither of us had handled a firearm before we met each other), and arm ourselves at home, in case of "uninvited guests." I brought up the fact that it is relatively easy to get a CCW permit, and she then took it upon herself to recruit the two character references for our applications!

Since then, she often points out places where a concealed firearm might be a handy thing to have. For instance, I mentioned that an abandoned section of the Pennsylvania Turnpike is now open as a 7 mile long bike trail... "Well I'm not riding on some abandoned road in the middle of nowhere without a gun!"

Our female co-workers (my wife and I work together) seem to "get it" too. I've really cringed when my wife casually brought up firarms at the office. One time my wife said something to the effect of "I'd feel safer with a gun in the office." With that, the flaming liberal Hillary Clinton fan sitting next to her spun around in her chair and exclaimed "Oh my Gosh!.........................(long pause)............... I was just saying the same thing to my husband. I know I feel much safer having a gun at home."

On another occasion, my wife asked me to open a box at work with my pocket knife. So, I pull out my Ken Onion knife (with the rainbow finish), and flick it open. Her assistant then engaged me in the following conversation:

Asst: (Sounding offended) "That's a WEAPON!"
Me: "Uhhh, No... its just a box opener."
Asst: "Its razor sharp... definately a weapon."
Me: "Well, you never know when boxes will attack."
Asst: "You can open it with one hand... that's no box opener! Say.... how much does something like that cost? I could probably keep it clipped inside my purse... just in case."
 
My wife always asked me if I had my pistols with me. I always say, "I don't leave home without them!" I always have more than one so if necessary I can hand her one.

Now make sure you wife/husband knows how to shoot your pistols (they don't have to like it), load and unload your pistols. The unload your pistols in case you have a medical problem and they need to be secured.
 
My wife gets it. Her comment is she looks for me to defend the family. To do that means I carry. Sometimes big, sometimes small, BUT I carry and she supports.

She has shot all her life and so do the kids. She has taken some handgun classes and is looking to take a shotgun class.

Her only question is why I do not have a shotgun, like I have to justify why I have not bought one.
 
My wife "Gets It" but she doesn't get in to it. Going back in time she owned a gun before I did. She had owned .22 before we met. Today she isn't in to shooting or carrying though she show signs of interest her motivation is low towards it. She fully supports concealed carry and my open carry around the house. She had no issue with my daughter (16 at the time) getting her own gun and learning to shoot. She turns 18 in 2008 so I'll be able to legally make it "hers".
 
When we first got married my wife was a little nervous about the fact that I was into guns and wanted to know how I was going to "secure" them.

Fast forward 12 years and last night we were watching the latest "Die Hard". In the movie there's a scene where they go to visit "warlock" who happens to be a 30+ year old man living in his mommies basement . ..when he said that he was prepared for the "zombies" we both laughed until we were crying.


I think she's starting to get it.
 
Yes, she gets it 100%. She goes shooting with me and likes that I have a CHL. And she's actually a Democrat. I'm a lucky guy. :)
 
:) She Gets It ! Has her own National Match Grade AR-15 & NRA Hard Ball .45acp, oh yeah, the little Swiss/German girl can shoot too.

The more she Gets It, the more I get too... I'm talking about guns still ;)

She did roll her eyes at the Springfield XD-40, I told her I paid $400 and she said didn't like plastic framed guns.
 
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