The KaBoom issue is attributed to various causes, but most often due to overcharged/damaged rounds coming apart and venting the blast down into the mag well due to the unsupported portion of the chamber (six-o'clock) on the Glock. Some suggest the use of lead bullets fouls the chamber/rifling/whatever creating overpressure situations. A .40 round with 180 grain bullet can end up overpressure from the bullet getting bumped back in the case a tiny bit too much, as there is little room for error there. People rotating their ammo and putting the same beat-up round back in that has been chambered numerous times are at risk as well. Of course a double charge of powder when reloading will do bad things...
Most people never have a problem, but it is big news when a person's pistol comes apart in their hand.
I would recommend being careful of the above situations and buying whatever caliber you like best. Try a couple first, as the grip angle (all Glocks) and recoil impulse (in .40, mostly) are not favored by some. I like my 21SF, although I'll admit my first .40 (a G23) and I did not get along. It was snappy and I could not maintain a good grip on it. It also pointed low for me. As time has gone on I find I like the gun better, but it belongs to my father now. Definitely shoot, not just handle, before you buy.
The 9mm probably is the most reliable/durable given its lower pressures and it being the original design profile, but there is a great torture test of a .45ACP model 21 on the net where the guy does a lot of terrible things to the gun and it still fires. Plenty of different Glocks have high round counts and still run. There is even a video of a guy shooting his underwater in a trashcan. If you like 9mm you could certainly do a lot worse.
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