I suggest, in no particular order, any of the following:
-High Standard
-Browning Buckmark
-Beretta Neos
-Ruger Mark II (I think the ''safety'' devices on the Mark III are ugly, unnecessary, and more theoretically failure-prone)
-Beretta 87 (nice, but expensive)
-S&W 41 (nice, but even more expensive)
The rest is up to you. Handle them, then pick what works the best for you.
The ergos of the Neos and Mark II/III don't work well for me. I quite like the Beretta 87 and Smith 41, but they're too expensive for me. Therefore, the Browning Buckmark Bullseye (7.25" barrel) is what I have. The URX version (rubber, finger grove grips and smaller gripframe) is especially nice. The newer Buckies have mag disconnects, but they're easily removed, IIRC.