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My Kindergartner was sent to the principal's office for telling one of his classmates that he (my son) was going to come over to his classmate's house with a gun and shoot his family. When the principal asked him whether he had a gun, my son (somewhat truthfully) responded that he did, and his dad (me) had given it to him. The reality is that I bought him a Chipmunk single shot .22 last summer. I showed it to him once, and told him I would teach him to shoot with it when he showed me he was ready. That meant being responsible, doing well in school, etc. It's been locked up in my gun safe ever since. I explained that to his principal.
The principal was actually pretty cool about it. She said I didn't need to come get him, and he wouldn't be suspended. She did note that "in today's environment", that kind of threat could result in an automatic suspension from school. She understands that he didn't really intend to hurt anyone, and had responded when the other child threatened to get a rock and "throw it at his head."
Still, I have to wonder -- where the f#@&! did this come from? My son doesn't get to watch violent movies or TV shows (at six, he's a little too young), and doesn't have any violent video games. He's certainly never heard his mother or I talk like that. While he has toy guns, he knows that he is not allowed to point them at other people (we teach muzzle discipline from a young age in my house....)
He got the spanking of his life when he got home last night (administered by my wife -- don't mess with her!) We also took away his toy guns, and explained that he wouldn't be coming near a real gun -- even the Chipmunk I bought for him -- until he showed he understood and was ready to handle the responsibility that goes along with firearms. He was genuinely contrite, and swore he would never threaten anyone, again.
Any thoughts on where this came from, or what else we should do?
The principal was actually pretty cool about it. She said I didn't need to come get him, and he wouldn't be suspended. She did note that "in today's environment", that kind of threat could result in an automatic suspension from school. She understands that he didn't really intend to hurt anyone, and had responded when the other child threatened to get a rock and "throw it at his head."
Still, I have to wonder -- where the f#@&! did this come from? My son doesn't get to watch violent movies or TV shows (at six, he's a little too young), and doesn't have any violent video games. He's certainly never heard his mother or I talk like that. While he has toy guns, he knows that he is not allowed to point them at other people (we teach muzzle discipline from a young age in my house....)
He got the spanking of his life when he got home last night (administered by my wife -- don't mess with her!) We also took away his toy guns, and explained that he wouldn't be coming near a real gun -- even the Chipmunk I bought for him -- until he showed he understood and was ready to handle the responsibility that goes along with firearms. He was genuinely contrite, and swore he would never threaten anyone, again.
Any thoughts on where this came from, or what else we should do?