PinnedAndRecessed
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I think it is a good way to get yourself shot in the back.
LOL!
I think it is a good way to get yourself shot in the back.
BBaerst,
Gang members come in all shapes, sizes, AND colors. Nothing in his post specified a specific ethnicity and it is telling that you immediately jumped to the conclusion that they were black.
You're missing the point. It sounds to me, from the original post, that whoever this story originated from saw some gentlemen "with a less than promising background" and used that stereotype to send a hostile gesture, regardless of the fact that there was no reason to jump to that. The thing is that people around here, at least from what I've seen, seem to take any element of hip-hop or urban culture as reason to be wary and defensive. And here was just another example of people throwing "gang" signs (an assumption right off) and obviously not dressed or walking or acting in whatever way the narrator thought was "respectable." So, instead of trying to mask your prejudices, why don't you just say whatever was troubling you about these people? Is it their race? Their socio-economic status? Their diction? I'm not threatened by people who "don't look respectable" and I highly doubt that's the real reason whoever came up with this story sought to send a message that he was packing, and wouldn't hesitate to defend himself.
in my post above.Good one. I bet it spreads.
You're missing the point. It sounds to me, from the original post, that whoever this story originated from saw some gentlemen "with a less than promising background" and used that stereotype to send a hostile gesture, regardless of the fact that there was no reason to jump to that.
The thing is that people around here, at least from what I've seen, seem to take any element of hip-hop or urban culture as reason to be wary and defensive.
I could be totally off about this, but I have my suspicions, and quite honestly, I've gotten sick of the thinly veiled stereotyping on this board that seems to pass as "situational awareness."
First of all I take complete offense at your stupid comment that its a racial issue. If you think your so damn smart and can get in my brain by all means keep your opinions and your stupid comments, and stop attacking me. Secondly my friend who told me did not disern race as I have not as well. It was indeterminet. You brought up race after falling into the trap that A. a gang member must be minority. B. throwing gang signs come from a minority group.
Secondly I am would be wary around anyone trying to interact with me that I didnt know.
To include people being lude and trying to signal me. Especially in a city which breeds a lack of care of anyone around.
From what I was told and relayed I think anyone not paying attention to there sorrounds is a moron.
Is not "hip-hop culture" notorious for reveling in violent behavior, including but not limited to guns?
And another question:
If people are engaged in imitating this sort of demeanor (the "hip-hop demeanor") is it not fair to assume that they live the "hip-hop culture" and as such might well be intimately familiar with doing violence for the purpose of robber and/or murder?
One final question:
If these assumptions are even remotely fair, is it not also fair to proceed with extreme caution when in the environs of such individuals?
Is not "hip-hop culture" notorious for reveling in violent behavior, including but not limited to guns?
Uh, no. That's a really, really, narrow and offensive view of a culture.
The problem is that you equate "hip hop culture" with violence and criminal activity. Maybe you should hang out with some black people or something, I don't know, but come on. Do you realize what you're saying? You come off as incredibly, incredibly prejudicial here. Not saying you are, but this is the sort of mindset I take issue with.
When you attempt to point out my ignorance of "hip-hop culture" by saying I need to spend some time with some black people, you yourself are guilty of stereotyping... Since when is hip-hop culture an exclusively black thing? I know white kids who live "hip-hop culture." And hispanics and asians too.
When you say that hip-hop culture need not be directly associated with violence and shootings, perhaps you are talking about the millions of people who buy and listen to hip-hop music but don't go out shooting people. Fair enough. But I still think that there is a sickness in that "culture," because you're saying that it's okay for the listeners to listen to songs about rape and murder and cop-killing as long as the listeners themselves don't do it.
That makes about as much sense to me as for fat white guys to build a "culture" around listening to music that glorifies kidnapping young white girls, raping and torturing and killing them. -- But as long as we fat white guys don't do that, it's okay to keep buying music made by people who claim to have done so, and who now sing about it.
But then all we have to do to clean up our act and earn respectability is to sing the odd song about driving around town in our silver Toyota Camrys or Kia Spectras, and withhold any mention of kidnapping and raping and killing little white girls, and that makes it all okay.