Guns offer false security (so says Kimberly)

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Self defense is a matter of choice, Kimberly. Some women don't have the choice you choose and must rely on a hand gun.
ie: Women in wheel chairs can't kick a rapist where it hurts and NOT everybody chooses to get as up close and personal as you! You defend yourself your way and let me defend myself my way, ok? guns save lives over 2 million times a year -
false security is believing cops and retraining orders can protect you!

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Guns offer false security
By Kimberly Shearer Palmer
Before I held a revolver, I thought only police officers and psychopaths shot guns. Guns seemed uncontrollable objects that could inflict death at any moment; I preferred to avoid them.
Then I learned how to shoot. My friends arranged a trip to a shooting range outside Chicago. Our instructor, a former police officer, taught us how to stand and point, hunching our shoulders for accuracy. We shot at the target silhouettes' heart and lungs before aiming for its head. In real life, our instructor explained, our attackers might wear bulletproof vests.

I was thrilled with my new power. A technological advantage now would let me fight the bad guys, even ones bigger and stronger that I am — or so I thought. Guns give women equal killing ability, but they also draw us into the dangerous illusion that owning one makes us safe.

More women are using guns. The number of National Rifle Association Women on Target programs — shooting clinics for women only — more than doubled between 2001 and 2002, says Stephanie Henson, manager of the NRA's women's programs. Last year, clinics were held in 38 states. Henson says women's interest is so strong that the NRA recently launched Woman's Outlook, its first magazine aimed just at women.

Self-defense is the reason the overwhelming majority of Women & Guns' readers are interested in using guns, says Peggy Tartaro, the magazine's executive editor.

Not so equal

But gun popularity among women is based on two misconceptions. First, gun advocates often call guns the great equalizer between men and women. In reality, according to a new study by the University of California at Davis, women who own handguns are more than twice as likely to be murdered with a firearm by their partners than those who do not. While this may be partly explained by the fact that women who fear an attack are more apt to buy a gun, the study shows guns often fail to help women protect themselves.

"Having a gun gives women a false sense of security," says Naomi Seligman, communications director of the Violence Policy Center, a Washington non-profit that urges stricter gun control. "Guns can be taken away, and women can be killed by their own guns."

The second misconception is that guns are the only solution to help otherwise "weak" women protect themselves. In fact, a wide range of self-defense options, from chemical sprays to street fighting, gives women the tools to fight back.

Fight, don't shoot

A popular new form of self-defense training simulates attacks on the street and in the bedroom by male "attackers" wearing protective padding. This realistic-training approach includes verbal and psychological elements that prepare women for real-life situations. Fighting off a man in a simulated attack is much more likely to resemble a real incident than shooting at a target-range silhouette.

Self-defense classes also offer a significant psychological benefit. After taking self-defense courses with simulated attacks at The Empower Program Inc., a Washington non-profit, my younger sister and I felt more confident walking down the street. We were aware that at any time, anywhere, we knew how to fight back. The course also taught us how to avoid violent situations and how to de-escalate encounters before they become deadly. Like Jennifer Lopez's character in the 2002 movie Enough, in which she learns to fight to protect herself and her daughter against her abusive husband, we had reclaimed our right to feel safe while depending only on our own bodies.

Considering guns as women's only shot at self-defense is like eating fat-free cookies to ward off obesity; they can make the situation even worse. Instead of buying a gun, I'm sticking to basic street smarts that will always be there when I need them most.

Kimberly Shearer Palmer is a graduate student at the University of Chicago.
 
Too bad her friends at The Empower Program Inc. forgot to mention that their feel-good methods don't prepare women for the real world. The bad guy isn't going to wear a padded suit and hood, what will they do when they break some bones in an hand after punching a bad man in his thick skull?:rolleyes:


My false sense of security has saved my butt three times in the last five years, and I never had to get closer than five feet. I'll keep the gun.
 
<"Self-defense classes also offer a significant psychological benefit. After taking self-defense courses with simulated attacks at The Empower Program Inc., a Washington non-profit, my younger sister and I felt more confident walking down the street. We were aware that at any time, anywhere, we knew how to fight back.">

Talk about false sense of security!


<"The course also taught us how to avoid violent situations and how to de-escalate encounters before they become deadly. Like Jennifer Lopez's character in the 2002 movie Enough, in which she learns to fight to protect herself and her daughter against her abusive husband, we had reclaimed our right to feel safe while depending only on our own bodies">.

Yeah, it happens just like in the movies. BTW I saw this movie she didn`t "Protect" anything, she ran away and hid out, then became a "super butt kicker" then voluntarily went back to her husbands house, set up the house for an ambush, waited for him to come home, beat the crap out of him and he DIED in the process. uuhhh premeditated murder anyone? Movie watchers beware, do not attempt to try these things in real life, if for some miracle you survive you will most likely go to jail.

PS. I like how she eludes to the notion that us gun toters walk aimlessly around thinking since we have a gun we don`t have to pay attention and are somehow limited to just useing a gun but she and her little sister on the other hand know de-escalation technics. I`m no slouch in the fist-i-cuffs area and have been in some bad fights where i "depended only on my own body" and let me tell you I am in NO hurry to do it again. Someone please tell Kimberly/Dorothy to click her heels and come on back to Kansas.
 
This article is horribly hypocritical. If you have a gun, then you will rely on nothing but a gun, and that is bad.
But look at ME!! I took a class and learned to hit a guy in a foam rubber suit! I can now safely walk through harlem at 0300 with a shirt that says I AM A NARC and I KNOW I can take care of my self with nothing but my bare hands.

"Hey, wait, Mr. Attacker, you're moving to fast. No, you're supposed to extend your left arm and let me grab your wrist and elbow. OWWW!!! THAT WAS MY FACE!!!! YOU'RE NOT SUPPOSED TO HIT MY FACE!!! A KNIFE! THAT'S JUST NOT FAIR!!!"

I have had a fair amount of hand to hand training, and have sat in on some of these "Women's self defense" classes. Now THEY impart a false sense of security. I got kicked out of one for "scaring the women". After the majority of demonstrations, and the participants were high fiving and talking about how they could take the world, I asked if I could perform a demonstration. I had a volunteer come and try their new techniques on me, with no rubber suit.

I did nothing complicated, simply bladed towarded the woman and advanced. She kicked, over-extended, and I just knocked her leg aside, grabbed her wrists, and put her in a backwards bear hug. I explained that the 5-7 days of classes only teach you enough about fighting to get yourself hurt, but that they are a good start, and stated that they need A LOT more training to be effective in hand to hand, and also that any who were interested could come by the range for firearms instruction.

I was then kicked out of the class for scaring the participants.


:banghead: :banghead:
.Ed
 
LOL - :)
Viper, the truth hurts sometimes...... anti gun self defense folks can't stand the truth ...... Nice job though!
 
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