I said:
If they are in my house uninvited - AFAIK they are committing a felony. If they break down my door/window to gain entry, they are violent.
And you replied with:
What if it's that drunk Brit who was swinging on some strangers swing set a few years back in Houston? He was visiting Houston and got out of his cab at the wrong address. He was knocking on the door - they couldn't understand what he was saying - so he went and sat on the swingset. When he came back to the door, they shot him. They were within their rights... but they have to live with the fact, they shot a guy for being drunk and lost.
Your example has absolutely ZERO to do with my premise. I think that a spirited exchange of ideas is A Good Thing, but let's maintain our intellectual honesty while doing it. If they are on my porch, they have not physically broken into my house.
Read
this article, or any one of a scad that are just like it, and tell me at what point the clues aligned for these homeowners to figure out that the intruder in their house was violent? As far as I can tell, that clue usually appears right about the time that the last option to Prepare To Repel Boarders disappears.
The couple in that article were darn lucky. Where do YOU think that scene was going, had the unarmed hubby not flung himself upon the (apparently armed) intruder and bought the wife the time needed to retrieve the firearm and return?
That was fixin' to be a bad, bad scene.
If they manage to get in with minimal noise/damage and are rummaging around for something to steal, they are not behaving violently.
Yes, they are. They illegally entered my property via the use of FORCE; the fact that they're being quiet doesn't mitigate that. Ye gods - are you postulating that B&E isn't A Bad Thing anymore if you're quiet about it?
You are not omnipotent. Your right to kill stops when the immediate danger to your life or loved ones is over. Killing based off absolutely unfounded speculation is not something anyone here should ever advocate. Moderator or otherwise.
You guys are making this far harder than it really is.
Have you ever woken up in the middle of the night, without knowing why? Then heard a crash? Then heard scuffling, and a muffled thud? Then wondered why the dog is silent? Then wondered where your kids were? Then realized, OH HOLY MOTHER OF SHIVA! I gotta do something! Someone's in my house! Then tried to quietly wake the spouse and tried to get them to call 911 without making too much noise, then retrieved a firearm and scurried to your ready position while your spouse whispers far too loudly into the phone? Ever done this, all the while thinking PLEASE, PLEASE let me get into position to guard the kids before whoever forced their way into the house in the middle of the night hears me or my spouse, figures out that we're up here and decides to come up those stairs? Wondering WHY DIDN'T I HEAR THE DOG? @#$!....
Lemme tell ya - when you get outside the master bedroom and you swing toward the kids rooms and you hear a noise that sounds like someone pounding up the stairs, you WILL NOT be thinking, "Hmm. Should I rack the action and let the intruder(s) know that I'm here?".
Sweet baby jeebus.
You may scream, you may try your best command voice instructing The Bad Guys to exit the house, you may drop your shotgun and pee your pants, you may flatten against the door frame and shoulder your weapon, or you may charge for the top of the stairs with all the energy you can muster out of that sound sleep you were in. You might do any a number of things. But you won't know what that thing is until you get there.
But the one thing that I can pretty much guarantee you that you will NOT be doing is playing a mind game and debating whether or not the intruder is potentially violent or not, or whether they are a misguided neighbor or not. It just doesn't work that way.
And as an aside - I can pretty much guarantee you that if its the drunk neighbor stumbling up the stairs, there is no 'warning' that you can provide that will register in their alcohol-addled mind and cause them to stop doing whatever they are doing. If there are impaired, they will keep coming; target ID is your only hope and any warnings will prove useless. If they are not impaired, they may or may not keep coming once they know you're home. But I will advise you that my experience is that most 'non-violent' B&Es occur during the day when the burglar knows that nobody's home. When they come into the house at night, it's generally because the intruder(s) are unafraid of being discovered. That is Bad JuJu Fixing To Happen.
If you are smart and trained and capable of snapping to the ready, you just MIGHT get yourself into a ready position to guard that which you most value. And THEN you might decide that a warning is tactically sound, or maybe you'll decide that it's better to wait in the darkness for the police to come. Maybe there was nobody coming up the stairs yet. Maybe there was, in which case you have less than a second and a half to ID the intruder and make The Decision.
Lemme know what you decide when you get there. Until then - try not to color things (and people) so black-n-white.
ETA: In rereading the above, it occurs to me that my intent may be lost on some. Lemme boil it down to simple concepts.
- Being in your house is no different that being out-n-about. Any event sufficient to cause you to draw a weapon in potential self-defense should be treated exactly for what it is.
- Being in your house does not alleviate the need for prudent Target Identification. 'Castle Doctrine' allows the presumption of self-defense, but you still need to perform the basic ID of the target before making The Decision. The same due diligence you would use outside of your house probably applies inside of your house.
- Any intruder that has broken his/her way into my house while me-n-mine are in it will be presumed to be violent until proven otherwise. The statistics for nighttime invasions in many areas are NOT happy ones.
- If I make contact with an stranger who has forced their way in my house, and we are at a distance greater that 1.5 seconds apart - I may offer them the opportunity to demonstrate their pacifist nature.
- If we contact each other at a distance less than 1.5 seconds apart - I will probably err on the side of caution for me-n-mine. I am in my house. They are not invited. Less than 1.5 seconds of separation distance is inadequate to safeguard me-n-mine from someone with ill intent, and my crystal ball telling me the state of their mind isn't working today.