It sounds like she doesn't want a .380 for concealability as much as she wants it for low recoil. Pistols like the Beretta 84/85/ Browning BDA, Bersa/Firestorm .380, and CZ-83 take a great advantage in terms of recoil over the Kel-Tecs, Seecamps, and NAAs. These large for a .380 pistols (by today's standards) are still small and concealable though.It's not for my wife, it's for a friend's wife. No, she isn't a bada$$ and doesn't like too much felt recoil.
Bottom line…
The Bersa would be a better range/carry compromise because it shoots more comfortably, but the Kel-Tec would better for purely concealed carry purposes due to its very small size and weight.
She should try them both.
.If the gun's main purpose is for concealed carry, and range use would be limited to maintaining confidence in its ability to provide protection, I would choose the Kel-Tec. The Kel-Tec's snapiness should not be a big factor if only a magazine or two is shot at the range, or as is most likely during a real-life situation
If you click "other" please explain why you made your choice.